I am going to have to see my ex (dumper) in a few days and I really dont know how to act. We had exchanged a few emails but its mostly been NC for the past few months, though in those emails she was still angry and hurt. Now inevitably she has to come pick up a few things which she organized through my mom, but since mom wont be home these days, it'll fall on me to give them to her. I still care about this person and its been about 3 months since ive seen her, so apart from staying calm, how does one go about gently establishing a framework for future things? Do i try and clarify the issues in her mind because we never really had a conversation about what had happened, or do i leave the past and just be light hearted? I am open to working something out with this girl.

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I would agree... Simply cause I read your breakup post at the time you posted it...

C'mon man. What are you doing?