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PostPosted: Thu May 07, 2015 3:27 am 
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Okay so this may not completely qualify as a relationship or anything but I just need some help on what I should do. So I met this girl a week ago and I broke up with my girlfriend four days ago on that same night I had sex with the girl I met a week ago, anyway I've really started to like her. We actually have a lot in common and really understand each other. well the one problem is, she's in love and in an on and off relationship with a guy and she's having a hard time deciding between me and him. Is there anything I could do to sway her decision? Or does anyone have an opinion on what I should do?


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PostPosted: Thu May 07, 2015 3:35 am 
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Quit becoming so invested. This a girl you have only known for a week and you just got out of a relationship. Thinking about anything further than that isn't smart.

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PostPosted: Thu May 07, 2015 6:27 am 
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Yeah. Let her make her own choice.

Don't pressure and don't be needy. Do you. Have a great time when the 2 of you are together and don't worry about other guys.

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The one that tries to get her to choose him most will NOT be the one she chooses.

And just be aware that you only like this girl at that level you do because there is a battle to be fought. Once that battle is won, you won't feel the same way about her. This is just your emotions at work. You have a dragon to slay, so I'm hoping you didn't leave your girlfriend for this girl, because you will regret it the moment she chooses you.

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The one that tries to get her to choose him most will NOT be the one she chooses.

And just be aware that you only like this girl at that level you do because there is a battle to be fought. Once that battle is won, you won't feel the same way about her. This is just your emotions at work. You have a dragon to slay, so I'm hoping you didn't leave your girlfriend for this girl, because you will regret it the moment she chooses you.
Eddie.Fews is right "you only like this girl at that level you do because there is a battle to be fought. Once that battle is won, you won't feel the same way about her."

And let her invest in you.

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And just be aware that you only like this girl at that level you do because there is a battle to be fought. Once that battle is won, you won't feel the same way about her.
This is sad and awesome at the same time. The thrill of the hunt is often the best experience.

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To be honest if a girl told me she was trying to choose between me and another guy id probably tell her to go fuck herself. I prefer to do the choosing.


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To be honest if a girl told me she was trying to choose between me and another guy id probably tell her to go fuck herself. I prefer to do the choosing.
That sounds like an ego thing. Very rarely are we not attracted to more than one person at a time. Your job is to express yourself freely and demonstrate your worth, not demand it. We make the choices that suit our needs best. Telling her to go fuck herself because how dare she be human is hardly the right choice.

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