I used to be a gentleman, I still think I am one now.But I feel like a looser for being one.I know about the pickup artist community for quite a time now but I really never wanted to be one of them coz all I wanted was one girl that I loved so much.

I have become close to her in three months and hoped to start a serious relationship soon.I stood up with her in her bad days,helped her in difficult times and made her feel good always.She was really a nice girl.

But things changed when I went to a club recently to party with her.Two older guys(like 40-45) approached us and started a conversation.I really didn't suspect their intentions considering their age,looks and behavior.But things changed fast.They invited us to check out a different club.One guy was talking to her while I was talking to the other guy.When the club got closed,they offered her a ride to her house as she lives in the south of the city and I like in the far north.I said no thanks to them and I suggested her ,"we can take a cab to your house first and I will go to my house in the same cab from there".

Then I saw her behaving weird for the first time.She said she wanted to go with them and asked me to take a cab right from there so that I can save few bucks.I insisted that I don't care about money and I wanted to ensure her to reach home safely.She suddenly became mad and started yelling at me saying she is an adult and can take care of herself.The guys were watching from a distance as if it was fun.I had no other option but to leave from there as I didn't see her behaving like that before.She preferred strangers than me.I left stranded alone in the middle of the downtown at 3 AM. I reached home in a cab with tearful eyes and a broken heart.At 5:30 AM,she texted me that she reached home safe and asked about me.I asked her why it took two and a half hours for her to reach home.She told me that she went to those guys place and had a few more drinks.

I can expect what could have happened there.Even if she was telling the truth,I really felt bad for getting ditched in the middle of the city at night.And I could see how powerful the pick up artists are as I am one of their victims.I could see boyfriend distraction techniques being played upon her right before me and I was helpless and out performed by their magical conversations.

All learned from that day was that every nice girl can become a bitch under some special circumstances and the pick up art is very very powerful than I expected.But I learned this in a hard way.I ignored her since that day and I am not really interested in her anymore.I am not interested in serious relationships anymore as I dont wanna get my heart broken real bad.

I have no hesitation at this point of time to accept that I am a total looser but I don't wanna end up like one.I just don't want to be at the receiving end of PUA and I wanna win where I lost .I wanna make my weaknesses to become my strengths in the future. I wanna become a PUA. I hope my journey starts here from Looser to Casanova.

I stopped reading at this point.

I'm going to show you material that will help you stay "nice" without being boring:

How to Win Friends & Influence People - Dale Carnegie (a book that will help your general interactions)

Richard La Ruina (books and videos that will help your pick-up)

Corey Wayne (Google: Corey Wayne Scribd) ...read his book 10 times (yes, TEN! IF you want to change, you'll manage it) then watch his videos after reading it. Do NOT watch the videos until you've read the book 10 times.

Stick to that and your life will change.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

Welcome To The Community Casanova!!

--Philosopher

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