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| pilot00 | PostPosted: Sat May 09, 2015 12:55 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Jan 12, 2012 4:24 pm Posts: 27 | | Hey guys! So I have a problem..
I am hosting a 24h party at my place going on all day and all night. I think we will be around 15-20 people at most. I invited a girl that I really like and she is also there only because of me, she has NO connections at the party at all. So it's kinda game on. However.. and here is the problem. My best friend has a girlfriend that has a friend that I fooled around with (no lay) a couple of months ago. They both insisted that she has to come because she is her best friend, and so here we are.. The thing is she thinks I am mad at her because of me ignoring her the past months. And and she can get crazy and very talkative when drinking. Last time I went out she also told my best friend that she thinks I have a grudge with her and that she thinks I hate her (which I kind of do). She always wants to talk about what happend and fuck man.. I can't be dealing with that when I have a girl at MY place, my home turf..
How do I go about with this so that she doesn't ruin my time with the new girl that I really want to get?
Do I go extremely friendly towards the crazy girl or do I just ignore her? Whats your best tips? The new girl doesn't know anything either about the crazy one.. I kind of wanna keep it that way.
Thanks!
/ Linus
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| Eddie Fews | PostPosted: Sat May 09, 2015 3:41 pm | |
| Offline | | Read My Book |  | Joined: Thu Jun 27, 2013 8:08 pm Posts: 5028 Website: http://www.EddieFews.com Location: New York City | | Dude just chill.
The goal is just to remain serene and unaffected.
If had a girl I messed with at a party get drunk and explode on me. She went all " He couldn't even keep his dick hard. What an ASSHOLE! " It was terrible. And I was in the process of trying to hook up with at the party. She grew jealous and went out. My girl even asked me " Did you have sex with (her name) " - I simply said " Yeah. She's crazy" and changed the subject. After a couple minutes the situation was diffused and everything went back to normal.
If it bothers you it will bother her. You stay cool and own it and it will be as if it didn't happen.
Be chill with her. Say "hello" and treat her with respect so long as she's being respectful. You don't have to do anything you wouldn't normally do. Just be chill. Nothing more and nothing less. _________________ Need Coaching? For 1 on 1 Coaching via SPAM, Phone or Instant Messenger - Email: EddieFews@Gmail.com
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| pilot00 | PostPosted: Sun May 10, 2015 3:57 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Jan 12, 2012 4:24 pm Posts: 27 | | Guess that makes sense..
Thanks a lot man!
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