dont understand where this girls mind is at.

met her awhile ago and she knew a few friends of mine (one of her friends was hooking up with a friend of mine) we talked and i later found out she had a boyfriend however got her number and we causally texted on and off for the next 6months. in the text it was pretty evident that i was pursuing her. id play games with her over texts to the point where she would ow me a coffee however when i gave a time and place to meet up she just wouldn't answer or say im not coming i have a bf.

around 3 weeks ago she texted me saying "hi " i replayed with "hi snow-white (nick name i have for her), she sent one more text then i sent another one and she didn't reply.

a few days ago she was actually with our mutual friend, seemed like she was trying to hook him up with her friend again. my friend called me to hang out she took the phone and told me to come aswell, i did. it was her my 2 other friends and me. i started to escalate with touching ect... at the end of the night i got her alone, we hung out for around 2h where she wouldn't let me kiss her or escalate anymore she said as soon as i got her alone (im not kissing you). she ended up leaving and left me frustrated (tried not to show it). even tho i dident get the kiss she was okay with me feeling her up through her clothes, was wierd. she pointed out when i would break tough barriers saying things like "dont try anything" if i would get close she would back up.... just games with her.

this girl is very good-looking easily a 8.5-9 (in a scale where 10s don't exist) and dosent surprise me if she has many guys after her. shes clearly a type of girl who only plays games, she wants to be indirectly approached and seduced while making him work for it. however its very evident that im into her and she did reject my makeout 3-5 times in that 2h period.

the next day i texted her with a ping text
me - i just saw a guy walk into a lamppost. thought that only happened in comedy shows"
her- "was it you"
me-"if it was how would i have seen it, silly snow white (my nick name for her)"
her-you dont wanna make it sound like it was you who was retarded but you also want an excuse to text me
me-striight to the point i see. i dont need an excuse to text you tho. what are you doing Friday.
her-taking my flat ass shopping ( i made fun of her for not lifting while i was with her, her ass isent flat. not sure if she was joking or not).
me- cool i need to get some black jeans. be at mine for 1. well go down town.
her-your hysterical
her- i swear
me-see you Friday then. don't be late, i take my shopping very seriously
her- youll be waiting a long time
me-whys that
her-cause i have better things todo
me-dont kid yourself im the best thing todo
her- thats why ur chasing me right
me- we have a mutual errand to run, why not to it together.
me (2h later)- btw tomorrow bring your bathing suit my pool should be ready
her- im not coming boo

im so mind fucked. is she just not interested, wants me to keep working or playing hard toget.

im debating weather to call her next (haven't tried that) or text her again for another invite.

I've tried to show her that im also speaking to other girls and proofing that im not "chasing her" i sent her a snap of a naked girl on my bed where she just replied "thinking of me while your with other girls"

feel free to ask for more info, i tried to make it as brief as possible while including all major points.
btw i found out while we were together that she broke up with her BF around the first "hi " 3 weeks before i saw her again.

any advice to deal with girls like this. I've already pictured myself inside of her so asking me to forget is out the window, something about this girl I'm drawn to.

im very direct with women and show sexual interest very quickly, was this my downfall?

thanks

You're running at race that she's already won, and in the meantime she's running circles around you for the hell of it. I'm not sure what Pick up artist book you got the mystique from but you need to drop it completely. Your entire game needs a complete revamping if i'm just being honest. You're not being yourself. You may not even know who you are. You're playing some character.

Did you honestly think she was going to cooperate with those text messages? She's letting you know that she see's right through you and think you're idiot. NO offense bro.

Rarely if ever do I come in contact with a post that I just don't know what to say to, but this one by far takes the cake. The only way you're going to get the girl (if theres even a chance) is if you drop the whole "mind trick/telling obvious lies" act and just be straight. Who are you man?

There are trillions of things to talk about. Trillions.

Call her if you want man. Thats pretty much all you have, since you're refusing to let go. But just be you man. Drop the act and the dishonest bullshit. Its not going to get you anywhere, especially with a chick thats clearly telling you that she sees through you and thinks you're not smart enough to see that.

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i totally agree with you but i am myself. im just not sure where or why she gives so much attitude towards me. yeah i put out a vibe of excessive confidence but thats just how i am.

the other girl part wasn't to show her i was with someone else directly. the night before (when i was with her) a convo came up about 3soms so in the picture i sent her i had attached "come join, 3 is better than 2".

what lies are you referring to when u said " telling obvious lies", i havent lied to her.
i dont have a problem talking to her either i just don't want to waste my time texting her about non sensical stuff when she gives me such attitude when i can read body langue in person.

what i don't understand if she sees right trough me dose she want me to keep pushing? or telling me she's not interested. why point it out if u don't like it?