hi im 19 years old and i've been having sex with my girl for almost a year. She was my first and She is the only girl i've been with. When I started having sex with her it took me months to make her cum. I didn't know about it. I used to cum fast. Now I make her cum fast and many times. Is this possible?
How do i know when she cums? I honestly don't know. She tells me she cums and she gets crazy and she feels good when she is cummin but Idk. I've made her cum like 3 or 4 times the same night. Sometimes I don't get it cuz she takes a long time to cum and sometimes she cums pretty fast... sometimes it takes me a while and then she cums again like after 5 minutes. it's weird can u guys please give me some feed back. tahnx

3 or 4 times per night is good, not great, but still good. If you want to make her come more consistintly, you have to know how to stack orgasms. There is a really simple tecnique for this.
First, anchor the state of her being hot and you link that to when your biting her neck.
Second, when she is about to come, bite her neck.
If you do this properly you can make her come any time you want, just by biting her neck, and therefor lead her into multiple orgasms.
For more info download a book explaining the octoberman sequence.
If you don´t want to spend any money on that, send me a PM and I´ll help you even more.

Well since the other guy ignored your questions i'll do my best to answer them.

Is this possible? Yes, it shows that over time whether you realized it or not you paid attention to what she liked and adjusted your technique accordingly. Additionally some women are easier to get off when they have emotional attachment.

How do i know when she cums? Well, there's a variety of ways. 1. When women orgasm they generally have muscular spasms of the walls of their vagina, you should probably be able to feel this with your penis if your paying attention. I guess you could always stick a finger in at the time to feel it but frankly that would be a little weird, unless your finger is already in there. 2. Some women get redder in the face, neck and chest 3. She might have muscular spasms through her body. 4. Weird orgasm face perhaps. 5. She could be a squirter

The speed at which she's cumming can be determined by a lot of factors ranging from hormone levels to the amount of foreplay/how turned on she is. Don't worry about it.

Are you having fun? Yes, then have fun, enjoy yourself and it sounds like your satisfying her...especially if she's "gets crazy" If anything the part of your relationship that you should be working on is trust. Even though you are doing a good job sexually satisfying her you don't trust that she is telling you the truth about her orgasms... this shows that you don't completely trust her... that's what you should be working on.

making a woman orgasm has a lot to do with comfort, if shes comfortable with u and shes not self concious she will not find it hard to orgasm, unfortunately its not true what they say size does matter, to an extent if u have a 3 inch penis but u know how to use it your sorted if not, learn how theres plenty of shit on the internet im sure can be found.

Multiple orgasms are rare, in which they are hard to achieve, but not impossible. I believe the maxumum ammount of orgasms a woman can have at once is 2. You have 2 main stimulating points, which are the clitoris, and the g-spot (yes! it does exist) Pressumably you should stimulate both points at the same time, and eventually one or the other will go off, or both. If you seek simultanious orgasms, there is the possibility of sincronising the motions of stimulation. It's always fun to experiment, and have fun. As for looking around in sites for info. The only way to get the info you need is from sites like these, where real people will personally answer your questions. thanks for asking.

hey dude, one of the guys was talking about bitting a girls neck 2 make her come. I've never bitten a hb's neck b4. how do u do this? is it lightly, med or what? i really want to make a hb cum. what are some other tricks in addition 2 comfort building?

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you have to lightly lick it then blow on it and suck on it its awesome get a girl to do it to you, guys can come from a girl suckin his ear i read it in FHM!!

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Foreplay is gonna be your best friend i love it. The intimacy having your two bodies pressed up against each other, breathing heavy and feeling a sense or euphoria. Its about taking your time and not rushing the sex. Now don't get me wrong i dont mean u cant beast it and make her cum but thats raw pound fucking cum. Thats good to have in your arsenal but u also want to be able to make her cum by barely touching her the less work the better. 1st rule of sex its about her *period* think about it if u make it enjoyable for her of course your going to have fun. Foreplay is a good escalator to slowly move into fingering / cunnilingus. This is a tricky spot your in because it depends on the girl because oral sex on girls is very intimate more then sex. This is when u really shouldnt rush. If your comfortable with eating out a girl then enjoy it . i love doin it the sense of control u have the smell the taste pure extacy =] This will send her into a shock because it feels so different then most things she has felt or will feel. After u taste a change in flavor most likely her getting wet, cumming, ejaculating, w.e u would like to call it shock the pussy with the penis. If you've done your job she's forgot about the penis. now its time to get down to bussiness shes came 1-2 times and now its time for the home run !! get it till she says stop good luck . HALT *Reptar* I AM

lol, don't be mistaken its not actually about her period...
it's about her, period...

If you wanna make a girl come more than once you have to know what DEVI value youve got.

DEVI= Domination, Emotion, Variety, Immersion.

Once you know how to make girls come more than once during sex you can anchor it and make her come any god damn time you want during sex. Once this is achieved you can make enter a "state of total orgasm" where she has an orgasm that lasts for 5-10 min.

If you want to learn this, simply read "the sex god method". It can be downloaded for free if you google it for awhile.

If you get a girl to CUM even once, you are pretty good. Although this is kinda irrelevant to the whole post. But to cum and to come are two quite different things. Could be nice to know in the future

So far you have some pretty good advice from other members. Sorry to be the one to tell you the truth, but first I will need to meet your girlfriend. Seriously though,It sounds as though you lack a little confidence in your abilities, get over it. Just screw her like you are going to die tommorow and its the last piece of ass you will ever get on this Earth, and as far as you know it may well be. Give her all you got every single time and years later after the break-up when she's old, married and sadly poking her husband , she will be thinking of you!.. More interesting is the fact that you are here on the PUA forum asking about a GF, what gives? Are you really in the hunt for a change?Or what? Sarge

PM sent,, let me if it this helps

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I agree with Reptar on the whole foreplay thing. It's great and and I always make sure she comes at least once at this phase.

Revolver's also on the right path with his suggestion to use anchors on her to get her to come. Personally I prefer to use a stroke of her dominant arm for anchoring, because you can pull it off anywhere plus you can build on it by looking deeply into her eyes and doing it. I choose her dominant (writing) arm because sensation is stronger on that side. Also don't like the neck because you can leave hickeys, which chicks hate (although they're good for marking your territory )

Finally, Virtuosity's right. Just have fun with it. If she quiffs, laugh. Tickle her or do something goofy. Just because you're having sex doesn't mean you should change the way you interact with her.

I've only been able to make a girl cum once, by that I mean not one girl, but only one orgasm per sex session, so I need to learn more.

Basically I can make her cum by going down on her, but if I do that, then it's harder for me to make her come from sex. If I go down on her and stop before she comes, it's pretty easy for me to make her cum through sex.

I'm talking about clitoral orgasms btw. I've never been able to get the G spot working. Also of note to me is that girls with outties are way easier to make cum than girl's with innies, heh.