Hi guys,

I met this girl on a business trip (she's from NYC, which is far away but go there regularly) and slept with her twice while there last week.

We've been texting a bit and she sent me a picture of her in bikini.
I said I wish I was back in NYC looking at her photo. She wrote back that when I'm back I can just look at her instead of her pictures.

I then sent: I would do a lot more than just look at you

She hasn't responded to this.

Mind you that I'm completely new to this pickup world. What should I do in this situation or future situations where I send something bad and don't get a response?

Thanks

You slept with her already and you think that was bad?

That wasn't a bad text bro. Stop freaking out. She'll contact you again just chill.

How long has it been since she hasn't responded?

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Hey Eddie, thanks.

I don't know her reasons for not responding, could be anything, but it's been 2 days.

It's not a big deal and whatever the reason is, I'm just wondering what to do next in case she doesn't respond.

Should you just casually start conversation again about something else?

Yeah.

If its no big deal to you it will be no big deal to her.

Hell, you don't even live in the state, so you shouldn't even be focusing too much on it. I'm sure this is a factor in her mind as well. Theres no relationship, and you don't live there, whats the urgency?

Theres no real need to reengage immediately unless you have interest in seeing her on a deeper level.

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I don't even live on the same continent.. so not sure why I put so much energy in this. However I like the girl, so we'll see how things go. Thanks for the tips.

Yeah... Depending how you look at it, you were a fling at worst and a fuck-buddy when you're in her country at best -- (Maybe vice versa too... Depends how it works out)

Who knows, man... Girl could even be married and was having some fun. Sounds pretty casual on her side.

Given the distance between you, I'd advise you to make it just as casual on yours, realistically. Msg her again the next time you're in the same place.

Prob not what you wanted to hear. Sorry man.

It would've been a bad text if you hadn't already slept with her.

Anyway. She didn't respond. But then again your text wasn't really inviting an answer was it?

Don't worry about it.

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