I'm dating a girl who has engaged in all types of prior relationships (fuck buddies, long term, short term, one night stand).

I on the other hand have not had the same experiences, but mostly because of my values and upbringing, and not for the lack of chances.

What I'm saying is that I had multiple opportunities to engage in those types of relationships, but I always wanted/preferred girlfriends and relationships.

HOWEVER, now I am feeling not up to par, and am gaining resentment in some weird psychological way. I feel like the guys who got to have their fun with her are lucky and I'm the "nice guy" that she's now choosing to settle down with.

How should I deal with this??

Thats exactly what you are man if you want to be realistic.

One mans trash is another mans treasure though. You see a value in her that the guys who just wanted her for one night didn't.

Its a mental thing though. Why is it you want to be in a relationship? Are you ready to get married and have a family? What do relationships do for you that a fuck buddy relationship doesn't? 90% of the women I come in contact with are willing to give you everything they comes with a commitment without one. So why get in a commitment? Who's buying a cow SPAM free milk?

I'm just curious...

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YEs in a way that is what i am but I have also been through my own share of mini relationships and im 30 so I feel like im kind of done with that type of thing. Relationships are just more fulfilling to me. I like talking to and having a friendship with the girl im banging. what are relationships anyways? its just two friends who bang each other and agree not to bang anyone else.

I dont see the value of banging other women because this one is giving me all that i can handle.

i think if I had another lifestlye where I had many options of women coming at me, it would be a very different situation, but given my circumstances, I am happy. except for this mindfuck

Every relationship will have its hurdle. The fact point is whether or not you're happy. If you're happy and you care for her, if she loves, respects you, and does whats necessary to keep you happy then stay. Enjoy yourself.

Theres no perfect girl. Every girl will come with "Something" that you have to deal with.

The only thing to question is whether or not you feel worthy of a woman of higher quality?

And your concept of relationships applies to many fuck buddy relationships as well. Except the no messing other people part. And that usually a desire of the guy and not so much the woman.

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