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PostPosted: Tue May 05, 2015 5:05 pm 
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If a girl I'm chatting with response only with "like" icon, does it mean she's not interested?


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PostPosted: Tue May 05, 2015 5:39 pm 
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This lacks so much detail it can't even be responded to...

Who's the girl, what's your relationship, where did you meet her, who started the chat, have you gotten IOIs from her/kissed her/slept with her?


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PostPosted: Tue May 05, 2015 5:55 pm 
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Oh I'm sorry...well it's a long story but I'll try to make it short.

The friend of the girl I'm chatted with is in this forum: (name's Kim)

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The girl I'm chatted with name Karen. Karen knows I tried to game Kim last year. They are both my officemates. So after that day, Karen became pleasant to me, smiles at me, etc. But Kim resigned, and doesn't care for me anymore, so the time passed by, I'm become attracted to Karen. But I resigned last month, and before I resigned, I gave her a friend request on Facebook. She accepted.

I began to chat her few days after my last day. I just request her female opinion about giving flower to a girl, then she inserted the topic about me giving Kim a flower last year.

I didn't respond to her directly. Then one time, I saw she post about her Dad's birthday. I chatted her and greet her father. She thanked me. And then I make a huge mistake. I asked her dad's age. She said the age, then I replied, "I didn't even think that your dad is 66." She seen it, didn't respond.

So I tried to chat her for the last time, (thinking of it as a last attempt to gauge her interest). I followed up our conversation about Kim (which I didn't respond directly previously). She asked before if I gave the flower to Kim, so in my last message I told her yes, I gave her the flower.

And her respond is just a "like" button.


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PostPosted: Tue May 05, 2015 6:08 pm 
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Much better with detail. Thanks... (I would remove that photo though. Poor girl probably wouldn't appreciate her face on the forum).

While she doesn't sound especially interested in you to me, I wouldn't say that the 'like' thumbs up is a bad thing... I also don't really see what's so bad about asking her dad's age.

Here's where I think your problem is: You're chatting with her like an acquaintance. It's the kind of back-and-forth you have with a doctor or a dentist, and it's very unromantic, very non-flirty, and it doesn't really seem to be getting you anywhere either.

Get a lot more flirty if you want to move this forward. Start chatting about interesting stuff - and get this chat off Facebook and get her out for a coffee or a drink with you.


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PostPosted: Tue May 05, 2015 6:25 pm 
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Thanks! I understand now what's my problem is. I think I should hone myself in flirting. Although I can do it with the girls I feel easy to flirt with, but some girls aren't that easy.

I actually thinking to unfriend her, but that's what most AFCs would do, right? Glad I realized before I do that. :)

Anyway, i really appreciate your comment about the photo I posted (another mistake again).

So, it's not bad to try to chat her and invite her on a coffee? (I have no other means..I didn't get her number before, thought I could let her go but I can't.


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