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 Post subject: time bridge how to?
PostPosted: Fri Mar 27, 2015 10:08 pm 
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I met a few girls a week back, they were positive and i was the center of attention they were all listening to me and trying to push themselves in to talk to me around the table. I got their numbers and made it clear that I'm getting them for a reason to meet them agin, they gave me their numbers and all, i got in to the text game and when i invited them out for some reason they would come up with an excuse. This pissed he shit out of me. I liked around and hardly any useful content on time bridging or in-depth how to. Any suggestions. on how to build a solid time bridge, text game with a good time bridge method.


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 Post subject: Re: time bridge how to?
PostPosted: Sat Mar 28, 2015 10:42 am 
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I'm not sure what you mean by time bridge method, but when I usually try to set up a date I give the girl(s) two different days possible. I may say "yeah, I'm afraid this week I'm only gonna be free on tuesday evening after 9 or thursday from 5 to 7pm (if she chooses thursday and we meet and I like her, I'm gonna tell her that I'm free even after 7 so that we can spend more time together and I can do my game without any rush).". If the she says no because she's not free, just answer "aaah... Too bad... Well, we can meet next week then. When are you free?". Shell probably tell you a day and you can say "oh, luckily i'm still free at that time! So see you next week!".

Hope I answered your question.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 30, 2015 8:34 pm 
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When setting dates you want to call or text once a week. The phone is for setting dates. It is okay to send flirty texts if the woman does it first but never initiate text conversations that go no where (i.e. are not moving things forward). If I'm texting a girl after a few flirty texts I'll get to the point which is to see if she is free on a specific day and a specific time. Sometimes I'll suggest something that we will do or just say I'll surprise her but ask her to dress nice but comfortable. The girl usually doesn't accept the date right away. She'll give me challenges (little shit tests) then I'll push through. Sometimes women will ignore your offer and ask you another question. You see this a lot on online dating sites. You'll ask for her number and she'll ignore your question. You have to push through her bullshit. When setting a date she might accept the offer then ask you to call and confirm the day before the date. She may also say, "Maybe. I'll let you know." Another shade of this test comes in the color, (assuming you ask her out for a date on Monday) "Sure. We can set a time later :)." These are all 'maybe' dates or what I sometimes call 'Up in the Air' dates. You need to secure concrete plans with each girl. This means a time and a day with no agreement to call and confirm. If she gives you any of this bullshit you withdraw the offer. This is called "the takeaway". It's a sales strategy that works great when setting dates with women. It helps to pass these subtle tests. Sometimes they aren't tests. The woman just is keeping you around as an option. Withdrawing the offer forces her to reveal her true interest. She will either commit to the date or accept your withdrawal. Alternatively she may give you a counter offer. If she says "We'll have to do it another day," or something of the sort it is your job as a man to secure plans on the new date she gives you or present another counter offer in case you are unavailable the day of the original counter offer. Treat her counter offers and your offers the same. Don't ever accept 'Up in the Air' dates. Many women use 'Up in the Air' dates to test a man's strength. Pass the test by using the takeaway are if you are feeling really congruent and dominant call her out on her bullshit. "No you know right now if you are going to be free. Use that line on another guy." This must come from a place of dominance and not neediness. If she gives you a reasonable explanation for needing to confirm after you use the takeaway such as needing to find a babysitter first then you can ask her to call you before two days before the date (if possible given the situation) to confirm and that you will make other plans if she doesn't. It turns the tables (flips the script) and it forces her to reveal her true interest. How you handle the phone is everything when trying to set a date. Phone game is your bridge from the pickup stage into the dating stage with a woman.


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 Post subject: Re: time bridge how to?
PostPosted: Sat May 02, 2015 4:58 am 
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I need some tips on how to get a girl to " come up" with the idea of hooking up at her place consistently. And some general tips and tricks to be able to do the same thing with multiple girls. Any help would be appreciated.

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You need to build emotional connection.

You mind should not be centered upon getting a phone number when she approach. Thats just for losers who want to retreat and have the comfort of hiding behind an emotional wall so they don't have to deal with the awkwardness of the moment.

If a girl doesn't feel like she's connected with you emotionally of course she's going to flake. Women are constantly worried about their safety. Its there conditioning.

Scratch getting numbers, focus on connecting with a women emotionally and she will probably ask you for your number.

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From what I can gather....you took all their numbers....they are all friends?

Someone is quite confused. Most likely all of them. Im not very sure if they Truly knew why you wanted to meet with them.

Personally i would never take every girls number from the same social group. Its watering down your intention and they probably assume its for social reasons. In future....pick one....get her number AFTER you have got to know her better than the rest.

Its better to have one solid connection rather than 6 half assed numbers...which mean nothing.

Take it as a valuable lesson and move on not making the mistake again :)

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