Hey Guys,
Core33 again
I usually do not have difficulty in shit test, I use to answer ignoring, being ironic, joking or a bit arrogant, depends in which contest I am.
But there are 2 shit tests that I find very difficult:

"I have boyfriend"
"Do you do these with everyone?"

I cannot ignore these I think, are too strong, how do you usually answer?

(I do not know if it is the right forum section, if it is not can you please move my topic?)

How you respond to a shit test is not in the words you say; its in the tone you produce during your response. If you're "shaken up" you will get rejected regardless of what you say. A woman isn't listening to your words so much as she is listening to the tone and emotion behind your words.

So the fact that you see these shit test as "strong" would only suggest that they affect you. And if they affect you, it will be difficult to over come them no matter what your response is. I can walk up to a girl and say " Hey cutie " and you can do the same.. I can get accepted and you can get rejected all depending on the tone in which you say it. And that tone is influenced by your frame.

You'll learn to be not affected by those test after more approaches and hearing them more often. You have to build resistance. And you also have to try to push them through them fail or not. The more resistance you're met with the stronger you'll become.

For the first one I used to say " How long have you had that problem? " Now depending on my tone and confidence level at the moment they'll either laugh and keep talking to me or roll their eyes and walk away. Now I just shrug it off and keep talking. No need to react to it. I only further validate it by reacting.

To the second one "Yes." and then proceed to asking a new question. Changing the subject. I.E. " Yes. So what are you from? "

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Hey man? When did she tell you about bf? Did you isolate her? If it's not, you were too annoying or show too many interest.
about the "...with everyone?" say:
1. "yes! especially with boys" *sarcastic*
2. "oh come on, am I look so stupid?" *pained*
3. "yeah, of course baby, i'm the famous pickup artist!" *laughing*
or explain, when did the girl says you that words??

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The "boyfriend" shit test can basically be ignored. A girl may tell you she has a boyfriend for multiple reasons:
1. She has one and is not interested
2. She doesn't have one, and doesn't want to hook up
3. She doesn't have one, DOES like you so far, and wants to see if you'll survive the shit test
4. She has one, and wants to see if you're strong enough to survive the shit test before she considers cheating
5. She has one, and simply wants to make the conditions known before you guys hook up

Ignore that shit test, at most respond with "Oh cool, anyways" and continue the convo. Don't ask about him, his name, or anything like that. You don't care so show that you don't

Most cute girls WILL have boyfriends and won't be emotionally available to hooking up with anyone else. Either it's a serious relationship or a developing fuck buddy she's been dating, most women are involved with other attractive men. Shocking, I know.

You can test it once or twice.. to see the extent of the relationship:

'I have a boyfriend.'

'Well.. does that mean your boyfriend and I should have a fight to win your love? '

Then she'll ever tell you it's not serious or politely nice you away.

Then to maintain your good mood I like to respond with:

'Well.. I hope you appreciate it. I didn't approach anyone else. I'm hygenic, not homeless, I'm a nice guy.. so I hope you take with you for the rest of your day.'

Then she usually will say something like 'Yeah sure! you are so nice.'

Then you can say: 'I AM nice! But I need to find a girlfriend.. so wish me luck.'

And then you get good vibes from a possible 'Rejection.' that would otherwise deflate your state.

If she says something like 'Do you do this with everyone?' I would completely over exaggerate it to the point where it's ridiculous.

'Yeah I approach every woman I see. Old, young, hot, ugly.. doesn't matter. I'm only about getting my dick wet. I need that sweet vagina, because I'm filling a void in my heart.. left by YOU. I hold myself and cry when I don't get laid because my mother never loved me.. blah blah'

You get the point. You make whatever shit test they give you into a chance to make them laugh or feel stupid for asking such a dumb question by exaggerating it. Make it as weird and shocking as possible.

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Listen to Eddie. These are great approaches to your two specific examples.

A shit test only exists if you are attempting to hide something.

A shit test from a girl is based only on her individual mindsets, which for the most part, she has been told to believe by society. Most people have no ability to back up their arguments when it comes to social behaviours, as they do not even know why or when they started to think that way. They are brainwashed.

As a guy bettering himself, you must combine your practical growth with introspection. Defining yourself, your action, and your beliefs ONLY according to your own live rules. What you live by! Own it.

Shit tests only exist for weak minded people, because it means your actions are not congruent with how you think. This is where guys panic.

Some examples of how i have responded in the past and why:

her - I have a boyfriend
me - I have a goldfish

I do not care about the fact she has a boyfriend, just as much as she does not care about the fact i have a goldfish.

her - Do you do this with all the girls
me - No, only the girls I am possibly attracted to. Yeah, I know...a heterosexual man who likes girls. What is the world coming to. Im hitting on you. deal with it.

I truly believe that what I have to offer women, and what solid men have to offer women is beautiful, loving and caring. Combined with awesome sexual experiences, excitement, and fun vibes.

Ask yourself what you want, and why you want it. Then clear up any internal issues you have around the fact you find girls sexy as fuck! Own that shit!

Chris

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When a girl says I have a boyfriend, one of my favourite ways to respond is to say, "I have a dog...you should see
him, he's so cute. He runs when you call him..."

Usually a woman will smile when I say this, and then I continue talking, asking her something like "So what's
up with you..." as if she never said anything about her boyfriend.

When a girls says, "Do you do these with everyone" my favourite way to respond is to say, "Only with the
best looking ones...and of course with those who have most money, but that's another story..."

Again, I'm taking what she said and I'm expanding on it. Agreeing with it, and adding my own stuff.

The key is to NEVER start defending yourself. Never get defensive, never deny or get weirded out by it. If you
keep your cool and stay unaffected, you can really say anything.

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