Hey guys,

I'm sure there are probably lots of similar topics in this Forum, however I couldn't find any instantly.

Here's the story:
I met a girl and did not take her very seriously. We hang out, had sex couple of times. In the meantime I was seeing other girls and this one was not special to me in any way. After around a month of hanging out, she asked if we could have more contact with one another. She was definitely more into me than I into her. After a bit of a hesitation I said OK and we saw each other 2 more times throughout the period of 1 week. Than the Easter came and I did not contact her, I just treat it as a time where my family comes first. On Easter monday I text her if the Easter is going alright for her.

In reply, I received a message that we should not see each other any more as she feels that I am not engaged enough by just sending a text once in a while. She wants more attention and said we should appreciate our time.

I was a bit surprised, but agreed. I texted that if she feels that way so be it.

Than she asked never to text her again.

Now, it didn't bother me too much for about a week, but now I am starting to wonder whether things did not come to an end too quickly. The texts happened 11 days ago.

So did any of you had similar experience and yet managed to re-engage? If so, what was the story behind it?

You'll need to step up your commitment level if you want to re-engage this particular girl. She wasn't down for something casual, but sensed that's what you wanted, so she backed off.

You up for that? I'm not sure you are, based on what you wrote here...

Exactly, the truth is that I wasn't up for that at first. But as the time goes by, I realise that there is something missing and there really might have been something about this girl, but I let go too early.

I had girls which stopped seeing me because of lack of my commitment. Most times I didn't care.
Now it's different. Instead of forgetting about her and moving on, she is stuck there at the back of my head. That should be a sign of something I guess

Definitely not the type of answer that I've been expecting. Believe me, if I was going for " yeah, uh huh baby. . . I missed you. . ." I'd go for a silly rom-com, not the PUA forum.

All I'm really asking for is a way of re-engaging a girl you let go, but then realise that it's worth giving it a go.

Regardless of being a player or not...

Funny how we always want what is denied us.

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