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PostPosted: Thu Apr 23, 2015 6:07 pm 
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it is said you should never talk about yourself because talking about yourself = qualifying = bad

I also believe you should not give girls straight answers to any of their questions because all questions are compliance tests. when someone asks a question, they are requesting that you comply with them. I dont know if that makes any sense. I will give you an example: "what's your name?" = "tell me your name" = "comply with my request"

so today I approached a girl who was at best a 6 and basically I gave weird answers to all her questions. She asked me "whats your name?" I said "my name is.......is............is............." she says "wow, you have to think about what your name is?" I said "my name is Jennifer"
she asked "do you live around here?" I said "maybe, maybe not"

somehow this killed all attraction and the interaction went downhill from there. you know the feeling when you know it's not going to get anywhere and you know this girl is done with you.

I dont get it. is this so bad?

how do I know when to give girls real answers and when to troll them?


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 23, 2015 6:16 pm 
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it is said you should never talk about yourself because talking about yourself = qualifying = bad

I also believe you should not give girls straight answers to any of their questions because all questions are compliance tests. when someone asks a question, they are requesting that you comply with them. I dont know if that makes any sense.
Who said this? Seriously? What girl is going to want to date a guy who will not say anything about himself or answer any question honestly? Nobody likes playing games 24/7. Where did you hear this advice?
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so today I approached a girl who was at best a 6 and basically I gave weird answers to all her questions. She asked me "whats your name?" I said "my name is.......is............is............." she says "wow, you have to think about what your name is?" I said "my name is Jennifer"
she asked "do you live around here?" I said "maybe, maybe not"

somehow this killed all attraction and the interaction went downhill from there. you know the feeling when you know it's not going to get anywhere and you know this girl is done with you.
Of course she bailed. You're being annoying. She's trying to engage you and all you're doing is feeding her crap without a shred of honesty or humor. Do you really think a perfect stranger wants to 'guess' what your name is and where you live?

I swear... Common sense would prevail in so many threads here.


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 23, 2015 6:34 pm 
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The old me would answer every question with a goofy response

her- where are you from?
me- heaven

her - how old are you?,
me- 8 years old you perv

her- What is your name?
me- Cornelius

After about a decade of doing this and stopping it, I finally started to get laid by being normal.

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