| 1) Don't get to know the girl too much. Also, don't tell her about yourself.
2) Only mostly concentrate on having fun with the girl in some way. One girl I have just been flirting with casually, making sure to let her know it's not serious, but now she's being overtly sexual with me as some of you may have seen from a post of mine.
Another girl (who I teased very well once but was not sure how it was going till now) I told my dog got mangled by another dog (my dog is OK now) and she later asked about my dog. We got into a conversation about dogs, and she was all happy to tell me about her dogs, showing me pictures and telling me good memories with them. She has been very open to me lately. Maybe not going anywhere, but a big step up for me socially.
3) Troll/make fun of/ tease girls, especially brats. It seems like the perfect place you want a woman to be, is FRUSTRATED AND LAUGHING.
There is this one blonde at my work who is very bratty, and every time she is I make a joke at her expense or make fun of her or something. She hits me playfully. Lately I have been singing the troll song every time she makes a mistake, and it bothers her. The song is catchy, and lots of other people are singing it now, and she can't get away from it, and its association with me. Sometimes this and other stuff I do get her laughing. She can be teasingly flirty too. I noticed lately she has been kinoing me, mostly too light for me to notice, but also asking "what time am I off?" Which I did not get meant maybe we can hang out if we get off at the same time (heh).
So now, my current sticking point is moving it out of the workplace. Asking any of these girls to do anything outside of work seems very obvious. If anyone has any suggestions for smoothly taking it out of the restaurant I would appreciate it.
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