Yo so I've been chatting with this 31 year old and she's ridiculously sexy. I usually let woman suggest meeting up for coffee/drinks rather than myself. It takes a little more game time, but it gives her time to feel comfortable and build rapport.

So we had plans to meet up today to have wine and hang out. She was going to stay at mine.

I fucked up.

I got ridiculously drunk last night with a mate and didn't wake until 4pm. I woke up to a message from her at midday saying hey, how are you today? And one at 3pm saying are we still meeting up today or have you changed your mind?

I texted her back at about 5pm after I showered and drank some water. I said that I was good but a little hungover and that I just had to finish some stuff around the house then I'd be ready.

She replied 'haha what'd you get up to last night?! I've already had two glasses of wine so perhaps another day? Take care of your hangover. to which I said, a friend came over last night and I may have had one or two beers. that sounds good. Just on my hangover walk now.

The last message was, nice... You have yourself a good night and I'll talk to you soon.

I understand how much getting drunk last night fucked me and have learnt my lesson from it. I had a headache when I woke and felt pretty shitty.

Should I just wait a few days and text her or wait for her to text me? Should I apologise? Don't want to chase her too hard. Probably gonna msg some other girls in the meantime. Never had this happen before and wanted some feedback. Cheers.

She pretty much endorsed your flake - and in fact suggested that you flake.

It doesn't seem like she's pissed off at all to me. Still probably wouldn't hurt to quickly apologize in your next message to her. Something like:

Hey good lookin'! Sorry again about the other day, but I'd like to make it up to you. What's your schedule look like this week?

Yo man, thanks for your reply. Very helpful and much appreciated.

Is there any way I could have handled those messages better? I still think it would have been better to meet up with out a hangover so I guess it was a decent result. Is he fact she endorsed it bad?

I'll send her something along those lines in a handful of days unless she messages me first.

Thanks once again.

Yo so I met up with this girl just before. It went great. We had a few beers and fluffed around for a while. She was only here for about an hour as she had to go home and cook dinner with a group.

Can't wait to meet up with her again, will keep you guys posted.

This girl rang me tonight and asked about the possibility of her moving in with me. (I live in a 3BR house by myself). I've only met her for an hour or two but she wants to hang and talk about this. I don't know if she's doing this as an excuse to hang out or she literally wants to live with me. Either way she's really hot and a gem. Never met anyone like her, but I don't want her to use me. I actually want to date her.

Been pretty closed off since we met as I've been busy with work, maybe she thinks I don't like her that way? Fuck man, I wish I had the answers and solutions to date this chick. I wouldn't mind her living with me if we dated but as a 'housemate' fuck that. I ain't having her bring dudes to my house etc.

Help?

Make her pay fucking rent? How can she use you if she's paying.

And if you're worrying about a girl using you that would only suggest that you lack the confidence to actually get with her. A girl using me is never even on my mind, because I would never allow it. How could she use you unless you let her? Cut it out dude.

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