Hey guys,

I really need some solid advice on how to create sexual tension like a pro on my date(s). There is this girl I am seeing, and things are playing out a bit unusual if I compare them to other dates I had.
At the end of our first date I kissed her, but she stopped after 2 seconds and told me she didn’t want to kiss me. Later she told me she actually was sort of in an open relationship with this other guy, which she wanted to end first. Fair enough.

On our second date we were flirting a lot, and when I was about to go home there was a lot of sexual tension between us. She then mentioned that she didn’t end it with the other guy yet, and that she promised me she would end it the week after. Then when I was about to give her a hug, she mentioned that a kiss on the lips also would be ok. (I know, it’s a bit hypocrit) So I decided to create some extra sexual tension by being cocky and saying something like ‘No way, now I won’t even try to kiss you now anymore!’. After I said that I knew she wanted me, since she just kissed me right away. It was actually an amazing kiss for both of us.

So third date, we were hanging out, and she told me she stopped seeing the other guy. But since this was already our third date, this actually made it feel really forced that we should kiss sometime at this date. There was definitely some sexual tension in the beginning, but I think the expectation that we should definitely kiss, actually made the sexual tension disappear. I mean I could have kissed her just because of the kissing, but that wouldn’t be so much fun after all. It was also in the middle of the day outside, right before we had other apointments. It just didn't feel right.

So, I know we do like each other, and I’m sure there will be another date. How can I create some extra sexual tension during the date, so that it will eventually come to a kiss naturally? If I cannot kiss her on the 4th date, I think I will just give up. I mean I have had other dates that I f-closed on the second date, so this is definitely a unique case. But she is just too interesting, otherwise I would have already let her go.

Looking forward for some advice!

Cheers,
Charisman_

You only need to kiss the girl once to solidify attraction. You will actually create more sexual tension if you just kiss her once early on or in the middle of the date and don't kiss her until you pull and escalate at a sex location. Next time you see, kiss her during the date and then pre-seed the pull back to your place or hers.

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Thank you. I was thinking of taking her out darting and air-hockeying (sounds strange but she mentioned she likes darts). But this doesn't seem like a good activity to kiss in the middle of a date. I'll probably take her for a drink somewhere after, I might be able to kiss her then outside.

Do you have some tips on particular stuff to do to make this a little easier?

Cook her a nice meal and a 'Netflix'. (IN YOUR HOME NEXT TO THE BEDROOM)

Stop taking her out to the zoo and hockey and get her laid.

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You can create sexual tension or kiss anywhere it feels right. Follow your gut and if it looks like she wants to be kissed, then kiss her. Pebble's suggestion is good as it makes logistics easier or taking her out for drinks near your place works.

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Haha you're right. That'll just be up next then. Thanks guys.