Hey!

Lots of guys here talk about having the apropriate "vibe" and "demeanour". I know this is basic but I find it very confusing. I believe it has something to do with body lenguage, eye contact and behaviour. Am I right?

Exactly what is it and how do I work on it or train it?

Thanks a lot.

A vibe is that feeling you get where you just hangout with family or friends where you can just be yourself without pressure.

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The "vibe" you speak of comes from learning to be completely unaffected and nonreactive to the majority of what is going on outside of you. But more importantly, the vibe comes from simply "believing" you have it. Its a rooted in self belief, its nothing you can "learn" or "pay for", its something you have to believe in.

Your vibe is influenced by your frame, and your frame is influence by your mindset. Your thoughts create your vibe, and the more you think the same thoughts the more you believe those thoughts no matter what they are. And the more you believe the thoughts you have the more those thoughts will influence your vibe.

For example: I personally think I'm the shit. I think I'm the best looking guy on earth. I think i'm smart as fuck, I think I'm cool and I think i am funny. I tell a joke and i wait for laughter, I expect people to laugh, because I just believe in my ability to affect people. I don't go around saying I'm the shit, I don't have to. My vibe speaks it loud enough. Guys who think I'm too full of myself avoid me, and the guys who share this same belief of themselves gravitate to me. And women have always looked to me with a level of admiration because i dared to carry myself in the manner I do. But the most important part of this all is that I ENCOURAGE everyone to believe in themselves just as much. I encourage other guys to think they are the best looking guy and to think they are the smartest. I love people. And I constantly share my love for other people with them.

As I said in my book. "The chosen are made up of those that choose themselves. "

I'm choose, because i've dared to choose myself and I will do great things because of it.

Now this isn't the "only" way, its just my way. And it works for me, and if any part of your identifies with what i am saying it can work for you too.

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So it's pretty much a "dream it, believe it, achieve it" deal. If I look in the mirror every morning and say I'm the hardest badass on the face of the Earth I will eventually start believing it and acting as if I am. And there is nothing else I cand do to "train" it.

Thanks.