I'll try to cut straight to the chase. I knew this girl a year ago from work, we only small talked, nothing much. She was a waitress and I was a busboy. After I quit the job, we obviously didn't talk afterwards. I randomly bumped into her at a bar tonight and she was with all her friends. As I was about to leave, the bouncer kicked her the fuck out of the bar. All her friends ditched her, she was drunk, and alone. I felt bad so I took her home. When I was actually in the bar, I tried escalating more with her with push/pull. It worked really well at first, but she was so drunk that no matter how well I ran my game it didn't matter (she kept wandering off, ADD/ADHD). Anyways, she's hot as fuck and single. The problem is she always knew me as the "busboy" so I doubt I can fuck her (Possible friendzone/no attraction). So either (A) I can someway somehow fuck her so LET ME KNOW HOW I CAN DO THAT or (B) stay friends with her so that I can fuck HER FRIENDS.

Who cares. I banged plenty of girls when I was just a busboy.

You need to assume attraction, especially if push/pull was working before she was too shit faced.

lmao dude what?

What does man made work positions have to do with biological attraction? Cut it out. How do you think all of these students are fucking their teachers? Nature is nature regardless of the rules man tries to put in place. Now if you allow that shit to affect your mentality which will influence your frame you will behave like " Just a bus boy" around her and she will treat you like it.

But so long as you understand that it doesn't matter.. That attraction isn't based around man-made concepts you'll be fine.

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It's not about my work position, it's just that see only REMEMBERS me and associates me with my last work position which is a "busboy". Anyways, IDK how to run game on her. She's a hb 9-10 and all her friends are 9-10's. They all work at Hooters, so they get hit on EVERYDAY.

DUDE!!! WE are saying it's not about your position But you keep referencing it which means that's YOUR belief, and if that's your belief that's what you project subconsciously.

Your a man and she's a woman, you were getting traction with push pull until she got wasted, THAT what you need to focus on

No listen, I already said I agree that it's NOT about my work position. It's just that, that's how she IDENTIFIES me as. So I need to get that out of her head. I need to let her know, no bitch I'm not Gunner the busboy. I am Gunner the BOSS ass alpha male that you think is fucken HOT (which I think is going to be hard as hell because she works at Hooter and already gets hit on everyday) or I can play it safe, be friends with her and hook up with HER friends. ALSO, I'm still a beginner.

Ok so I had some help from a fellow community member and so far the HB and I have been texting and this is how it's going:

me: yo, what are you up to?
her: being hungover lol
her: hbu?
me: Me? Terrible, a meteor just crashed into the building next door, a bunch of people just died and now I got this lady screaming in my ear about it. Don't people know I don't care about their personal problems?
her: ARE YOU SERIOUS STFU
her: Are u trolling?
me: I would never! What do you take me for? A weather man?!
me: Atleast it's Friday. How long does it take Grace to get through a hangover?
her: all day lmao
her: Idk I have plans to kick it with the dude I've been dating later. I broke up with him but he wants to talk I'm like ehhhh lol
me: Yeah he had his shot, fuck that guy, you go girla

She stopped texting me ever since. The fellow community member, his idea was this:
"We cleaned up some "icky" feelings and now she associates positive emotions with you a little more"

Fellow community member? lol

Seriously?

I'm curious to hear what you think.. What do you think about the text exchange?

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He handled it a lot better than I would've that's for sure.

UPDATE:

Me: I'll text you some other time if the scooby gang is up to something fun
hb: Ok )) thank you again for last night
hb: I need some sleep lol feel like shit

Update with full text report:

me: yo, what are you up to?
her: being hungover lol
her: hbu?
me: Me? Terrible, a meteor just crashed into the building next door, a bunch of people just died and now I got this lady screaming in my ear about it. Don't people know I don't care about their personal problems?
her: ARE YOU SERIOUS STFU
her: Are u trolling?
me: I would never! What do you take me for? A weather man?!
me: Atleast it's Friday. How long does it take Grace to get through a hangover?
her: all day lmao
her: Idk I have plans to kick it with the dude I've been dating later. I broke up with him but he wants to talk I'm like ehhhh lol
me: Yeah he had his shot, fuck that guy, you go girl
Me: I'll text you some other time if the scooby gang is up to something fun
hb: Ok )) thank you again for last night
hb: I need some sleep lol feel like shit

*Next day*

me: I'm meeting up with my girl real quick at Main Street. You down for Magiamo's?
her: I literally just got back from main street ha i went for a run. Getting ready for work right meoww

*Next day

me: congrats !
her: on what lol?
me: i just thought of you hard to do... so congrats
her: Hahaha
her: Nice thats a dope line. I'm stealing it
me: U can't it's mine
her: Not anymore sucka!!!
her: because we can share
me: but I don't wanna share

*She usually gives me instant replies, idk what happened here. She just stopped insta-replying. It's been a few hours since. Now should I continue this conversational thread? Or start a new one? ***Most IMPORTANTLY, how would I go about doing it? The ultimate goal of of texts are to ask her out for a date.

It just doesn't seem to me like she's going to sleep with you. You're in a tough spot now because you've hinted at wanting to do something with her several times and she isn't biting. The more you ask, the lower your value slips.

I think your best bet would have been to go balls to the wall and capitalize when you had her drunk. She doesn't seem like the type who will commit to any sort of plans with you.