Dear greekgod..
Women don't say they want to wait until marriage to have sex NOT to sound like slags...
Women say this because they want the guy to consider marriage and not waste their time in a short term relationship.
As a woman if I want to defend myself not look like a slag I will make a guy wait until he shows me signs of commitment.. BUT I will never drop the card "no sex until marriage".
If I was a virgin I would had told that to a guy who I was afraid he would leave me after having sex with me.
From my experience my other female friends would had done the same.
Your method of turning on a woman is amazing. I doubt it would work on someone who wouldn't want to have sex until a certain type of commitment. Number one rule when you go for something like this you NEVER put yourself into situations where it would be "dangerous" you might have sex with him.
Even in relationship books it says "tease him only in public places where he can't do anything heavy etc". It's a classic rule.

At some point in my life I was tempted to use this line on someone who I would consider marriage material but then I changed my mind for two reasons:
a) I might get myself married to a guy who wouldn't be able to satisfy me and
b) withholding sex WOULDN't lead to marriage. I would had been quickly dumped or with a guy who would have been sleeping with someone else and would lie to me and want me for different reasons other than love.

If you have a research online you'll see there are other forums where women are suggesting to withhold sex until marriage and you'll see how women think when they take this decision. (in case you need more proof).

So, she may want to wait. We get that. I do not want to say that waiting is a bad approach because who am I to determine someone else's course in life. However, I do believe that it is likely to be a huge let down. It's likely that all of her friends know she's a virgin and, after her wedding night, they will all know that she isn't a virgin which could probably have some time of negative psychological consequence. Something to consider.

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Additional note, something i should have mentioned in my earlier essay of a message: Generally you cant, and SHOULDNT try to force someone to do something that they really dont want to do (unless its really in their best interest, like stopping them from jumping off a balcony). However I believe in your case, her constant 'teases' of stating what she wants to do with you leads me to believe, she does want to have sex.

To Maria. I come from a religious background, and have many religious friends, who are generally wanting to wait until marriage before losing their V cards. I see and hear others give their reasons why, which usually involve: 1. Feel religiously obligated to. 2. Feel morally obligated to (as parents/society have made the idea of sex before marriage sound as evil as murder, or it making you a slut) and of course 3. fear. either fear of losing something that cant be gotten back, the fear of doing something for the first time or fear of being shafted after giving in (total douche move on the guys behalf if that happens. If you dont want commitment, dont be in a relationship.. Its so simple!). Honestly, i have only ever heard one person mention the latter option for their reason for not having sex, so maybe my lack of knowledge on that point may have lead me to give advice that wont work. Although that person has crippling insecurities, and i imagine most people who assume you will leave them after sex (unless you give them reason to assume such) are also coming from a place of insecurity (rather than saying 'no' based on moral beliefs etc.). Its really a case of trying to determine which reason/s for waiting until marriage she has.

Regardless, I'd say if he is comfortable taking charge, and confident in the relationship, try to play the seduction game! It's a turn on for her, and enjoyable for you both, even if she does stop you before penetration (so mean! :p). If she does stop you, after the night ends, simply talk to her. Ask her why she doesnt want to, listen, be understanding, explain your side of the story (why you feel sex is important, the feeling of closeness you will share, or whatever it is you want her to know), and see where it goes from there. I like to let my actions do the talking, but sometimes there is no better option than to sit and have a lengthy talk. If nothing else, it will show that you care. Good luck buddy!

P.s. Whenever I hear the name Maria, I automatically think Greek chick! So if that is the case: Kalo Pasxa Kai Kali Anastasi!

You're very wishy washy here. Either you want to have sex before marriage or you don't. If you would like to save yourself, that's your choice and she's compatible with that. If not, find someone who wants to have sex before marriage.

She's not your girlfriend unless you are fucking her.