Hey guys. What is the general protocol for this. How do you get a girl to take you back to HER place. I understand this will not be easy, but I currently have a roommate (just moved to a new town and have shared housing provided by work, roommate is a coworker and wakes up earlier than myself). I don't have a problem escalating on the first date and ALWAYS kiss close by the end of the night (because why the fuck else are we on a date?).

I just anticipate getting the girl to have me back to her place is a whole different ballgame (and admittedly is something I've never done). Any tips?

Hi dude,

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To answer you : having a girl to take you back to her place ? I usually do that. It's useful. The advantage is that her home is her comfort zone. Has she got parents ? Roommates ? Etc. In this case, it's harder.

Ask her discrete but explicit questions, like how far does she live from where you are together, does she live alone at her place, it'd be cool for you to see her little casa, find plausible excuses for you to not take her at your place, etc, while making the sexual pressure grow to very high temperatures.

Or simply output : "Get me to your place if you dare". Etc etc... possibilities are infinite. Use your creativity and humor, C&F, while making the pressure hotter.

How about a simple and direct,

"You're place or mine?"

When you're ready to seal the deal?

Tell her that you will walk her home and then pretend to need to use her toilet. But even then, you have no control and often logistics will fuck it up for you.

Ultimately, get your own place, make it happen. No excuses.

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I had this same dilemma. How do I get a girl to bring me back to her place?

One of the best ways to do this is to simply say to her, "Let me walk (or drive) you home"

And when you're close, things will escalate if you're escalating them, and then the girl will either
ask you to come in, or you can ask her to use the toilet quickly before you go.

And honestly, don't be too sneaky about this. You want to be with her, so what? If she wants to be
with you, and you want to be with her, that's normal and natural that you'd want to hook up.

Good luck.

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As was said logistics will often fuck you over.

IFshe has her own place then great. Unfortunately, many women don't and live with their family or roomates. The only thing to do in this situation is pre screen OR prebook a room in a cheap hotel (you just needed to get out the house for a weekend, just wanted to treat yourself, etc).

Better option is to get your own place.