I was out for dinner with some friends, and this fat guy that no one really likes but ended up giving me a ride to the restaurant slaps me in front of my other friend and this chick telling me to calm down, even though i was just kidding around. I was just shocked and didn't know what to say. i ended up saying "you're fucking dead, i'm gunna do something i dunno kno wut but"" lol i was totally shocked, how would u deal with this?

The kid is really a prick and he doesn't get girls so he feels the need to act like an ass to people to show dominance and hide his insecurities. But he also felt he had power over me because he drove me to the restaurant, and because i was the one that asked him if he could give me and my buddy a lift.

I would have laughed in his face and told him that real men throw fists. Only bitches slap guys.

so you were his bitch cuz you didnt have a car, there isnt much you could do, you could only say something intelligent and not too insulting like " did that make you feel big?", "why dont you try this on that guy(point at some1 that can fuck him up) and see how tough you are"

I would rather get punched than slapped. You get punched, you punch back. A slap takes away masculenity. Big time. Its obvious, cause you didn't know how to respond. I would have just smiled at him with the cockiet of grins. Just let him know, that shit didnt affect me at all. It doesn't matter though. If a guy is gonna put hands on me, he had better be ready for a payback in a big way.

No matter what the situation, if the guy isn't a good friend and touches my face it sets me over the edge. If someone physically provokes you, knock them the fuck out, end of story. You can find a lift home some other way.

I agree with these guys... It is NOT ok for some dude thats not even your friend to do that. If he was driving i would have waited till he was at a red light then punched him in the back of the head, lol. Then hop out the car and find my way back home.

You can always take a cab I woulda stomped his ass into the ground lol all the above are good advice too but I couldn't have dealt with the manhood robbing that a slap inspires also liked the guys throw first only bitches slap and the did that make you feel big comment those were both fantastic but I couldn't see myself keeping my cool as well as that *shrugs*

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yea, all makes sense, but we were downtown and i had no clue how to get back to our music competition, he was my only ride back and if it was some other guy i prooobably would have just slapped him back

One of the worst ass kickins ever was when my buddy beat the shit out of a guy by just slapping him. The other guy had no clue what the fuck to do. He knew the moment my friend started punching, it was lights out. When you beat someones ass by slapping thats just showing the other guy you have no respect for him. Its demoralizing.

You could've brushed it off and said "that was a bitch move... know what else is a bitch move?" then kicked him in the balls

Lmfao.

The point is guys, if someone hits you, you hit back. Anyone who has respect and dignity for themselves will not tolerate some douchebag asshole slapping them, end of story.

I know it came seem shocking if you have never been in a physical altercation before, but learn from this experience so next time someone tries and pulls something like that you show them that you won't tolerate shit like that.

What's missing here is the why. If he was ripping on him/insulting him...well, there's some justification for the slapping. If you started the whole thing, actually getting into a fight is a DLV.

If it was out of the blue/someone I wasn't dealing with I'd look at him for a few seconds, smile/laugh, say "You're not worth it", and walk away.

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I'm sorry but under no circumstances can I imagine the justification for one man to slap another. That's how fights to the death began in old days, among "civilized" men no less.

If the OP had said something that set him off that bad, the correct thing would have been to call him on it, in short verbally correct the inapporpriate behavior directly, not bitch slap him.

If he would have attempted to slap me, I don't know what would have happened. While I handle verbal goading and insults quite well, once things get physical I tend settle the matter quickly and efficiently, polite or nice gets reserved for conversation.

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as i said, i would have hit him back or kicked him in the balls or punched him in the face if he was not my only means of getting back to my music competiton

OMG Those were actually soo funny I LOL'ed in real life.

Yeah, I still wouldn't really have taken it, ESPECIALLY if they were girls around. I used to just take that kind of shit, but now I'm actually starting to fight back, and it doesn't happen that much anymore.