I'd like to know your opinions on this.

I went to high school with this girl, she's a year younger than me and a senior this year. We grew up in a small town and have known each other since we were really young but have never been much more than acquaintances.

I invited her over the other night so i could record her playing the piano because she is really good! After that we went upstairs to watch a movie. We ended up spooning and I rubbed her pussy a little bit. (over the pants)
Weird part was that we didn't kiss..

Then a week later I look her out to get a drink real quick. We sat down and before we knew it, two hours had gone by. She seemed to be really interested and she didn't even look at her phone once. I've asked to hang out together a couple times since but she said she was busy so i blew it off. But i did ask her if i should just leave her alone. I nicely made it clear that i don't want to waste my time or hers. She said she wants me to keep asking to hang out and she just gets busy. Since then we have been texting on and off. Nothing very exciting though.

We then scheduled a date for last Saturday but i had to cancel because of work and she also had to cancel because of work. She said she was really sorry and she suggested we reschedule.

So i can't decide if she's nicely telling me no, or if she's actually busy and is in fact interested.

Ps. She uses a lot of kissey face emojis.. I assume that's good?

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First thing that jumps out at me here is that you asked her if you should leave her alone? Why did you ask that? Makes you seem very needy I think mate.

In my opinion though you need to make a move here, you probably should have done long before now, your saying you managed to rub her pussy but didn't kiss her? Surely you could have escalated here. Also sounds like she could be cancelling now because she expected you to make a move when you met the second time but you never did, remember a man goes after what he wants, so you have to be confident here and escalate and get what you want. Stop asking if you should see each other, she may even like you but is waiting for you to make a move so cmon man, if you can set up another date make sure you act confident as fuck and make sure you make a move.

Cheers

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Yeah, reading back I feel like an idiot! I said "Well hey if you don't want me bugging you about a date then i wont't haha" and she said " No i totally want to Joey!! I really do(Kissey Face) Another day would just work better:)"

So yeah, it sounds to me like she is down to chill, things just keep coming up? Im not sure. Thats why I'm here.

When we were watching that movie, she was really into it and so was I. Big Hero 6 is a damn good movie. But I was escalating slowly and it was getting late and I know her parents are really strict so when we checked the time she had to leave quick.
She seemed hesitant to get out of my car when I was dropped her off after getting drinks, like she wanted me to kiss her. I'm not afraid to kiss her, but I think this girl is more girlfriend material and I didn't want to rush things.

In my past relations with girls, it took some time before we wanted a relationship. So that leaves me with two questions.

1. Can relationships happen fast?

2. What do you suggest I do to hang out with her again? Maybe be more controlling and tell her when and where to come hang out with me? or should I keep "asking" her to hang out and be persistent?

Thanks for the advice and the reply though man! Much appreciated. I agree. I have to make a move next time I see her.

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