Here's a brief history, dated this girl for about 2 years, broke up and didn't contact each other for a few months, dated other people, got over each other etc. We ended up talking to each other recently and hooking up again, we discussed and agreed that we don't want a relationship but don't mind the occasional hookup.

However, whenever I want her to come over, she claims she's always busy or too tired or whatever, and whenever she's keen (which is not too often) I always happen to be free so I go over and we hook up or whatever.

So I was just wondering, how do I get her to be the one in my position? How do I get her to crave me, and not the other way? How do I get back into a position of power?

Thanks in advance

Give her an orgasm. Girls love those and will show up for the guys that can give them one.

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Dont make yourself so available. Id say hang out with her one and show her a good time then dont hang out as much. She'll probably think she's the one thats not good enough. But reallyt it seems lie a FWB relationship and if youre getting what you want it doesnt matter whos in power. Seems like a win win either way