I've texted many different girls during the course of my pickup, but this is the first time I've ever had this obstacle.

Basically, I'd like to meet up with this one friend who lives out of state. She doesn't feel comfortable driving herself down to my place, but I feel totally fine by the idea of me paying her a visit whenever I'm free. This is what the convo developed into:

Her: I took a cat nap and I feel even more tired :'(
Me: You said you were going to open panera tomorrow morning?
Her: Haha yeah you stopping by?
Me: if i was, I wouldnt know exactly where to drive to
Me: Plus, my spring break's over T^T
Her: Aww there's only one panera in PA! Just kidding there's like 10 just in our district
Her: You'll never find me
Her: I literally pass by a panera just to get to the one I work at every day

I didn't reply to her yet. Obviously, I want to play out this out in a cool manner. I don't want to sound too needy by saying, "Text me your address!" cuz it'll be too apparent that Im showing too much interest in her. I basically don't know how to reply to her text without sounding too interested or disinterested.

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"I've learned it's important not to limit yourself. You can do whatever you really love to do, no matter what it is." - Ryan Gosling

she is just kidding

For the love of God many women are boring.

This is the gist of most of the girls in my Tinder 'moments' feed. I don't mind hearing this kind of info from a girl I'm seeing but to hear it from so many of them over and over gets so old.

Do they really need to verbalize this utterly unimportant bullshit? Ffs.

In some ways the world was better before the internet; there was more mystery.

About what, exactly? This isn't the first time that she was asking me if i was coming down to PA. She's gotta be interested in me visiting her, but at the same time, she doesnt want to tell me where she lives. im getting mixed signals from her! I've been talking with this girl through text and SPAM, and honestly, i'd have to agree with you on this one: she basically works at panera, hangs out with one friend, and likes to talk about her cat. Our interactions are very limited, but since we're going to see each other at the beach at some point during the summer, i want to know how our physical interactions work. If things dont turn out the way i want them to, then im just gonna cut her off and move on to other girls. I've already been friendzoned by her, so what else do i have to lose?

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"I've learned it's important not to limit yourself. You can do whatever you really love to do, no matter what it is." - Ryan Gosling

Follow the advice in your signature quote and don't limit yourself. Begin meeting other women immediately.

She was teasing you, she was not being serious when she said, ''you'll never find me ''.

You should probably just talk to her on the phone instead of texting so that you can see the context behind what she is saying better, jokes don't always translate so well over text.

If you don't want to do that then you need to lead the situation better. Instead of being ambiguous just make it clear what you want, ''Yes im stopping by Panera tommorow, are you interested in hanging out?''

You didn't even actually tell her if you were going or not, then she started teasing you about where she lives. You implied that you probably weren't going to Panera by saying ''if i was, I wouldnt know exactly where to drive to ''

Here's a real compelling message from today: You don't say? Stop the presses, she's up!