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I can never seem to land anything when approaching girls at a club, who aren't on the dance floor. however its still loud enough that you have to break eye contact to speak. i never know what to talk about, i can open fairly easy but after 15/30sec i just get boring.
what are some interesting topics of conversation to have? also how should i act via social value in a club. usually i try to never stand still unless im having a conversation however ive been told by my male friends who don't approach very often that as i pace the club i look like a predator, do girls view me as this to?
Thanks
What's FAR more important than the topic is your energy and vibe. If you have low key energy and the wrong vibe then picking up in a high energy club environment will be difficult. If you have great energy then a simple hi would be fine.
Personally I use situational openers (e.g. something they're wearing) and turn it into something funny.
I agree with your friends - pacing the club too much looks weird. Do so once or twice an hour maybe, but if you're continually walking a few people may notice and get a bit weirded out.