A girl in my class is an angel. I've been with enough girls by now to not fall for specific girls, but this girl is almost too innocent. She is sweet and calm and super attractive and since I feel that other people find her to be like an angel as well then most people don't have the confidence to approach her. What can I say to her after class, besides for "Hi, Im ____", or "how did you do on the test?" ??? Semester is almost over and I have yet to say a word to her.

Yet you don't have a clue what to say to her? That doesn't really add up, now does it? Just be straight with us dude. We don't care how experienced you are. With posts like this you aren't really fooling anyone.

An angel, man? Really? You need to go throw a rock so you can regain some masculinity.

She's not an angel. She's not special. It's thinking like this that will mess you up (and she's really not special, regardless of what you think. Her shit stinks too). You admittedly haven't even talked to her. She could be a giant racist asshole for all you know.

How old are you both? And what is wrong with "hi" by the way? It's the best opener there is. Smile and introduce yourself. Then talk to her like you'd talk to one of your buddies.

Actively listen, and just talk. Don't rush. After a few mins --- If she's not an asshole and if she's worth it, then you say "you know you seem pretty cool. Why don't you give me your number..." And hold out your phone.

I'd go into the specifics around kino and escalation which you should be doing during this interaction as well... But you've been with enough women to know all that......... Right?

I knew I was going to get this but its true. I have bad game in class talking to strangers (being sober I hardly every do cold approaches) but generally I am very friendly.

What's wrong with "hi" is that I'm going to have to be putting myself out there in order to approach her. "Hi" is too casual after I chase her down from after class. I feel like I would need a smooth direct opener for this situation to work properly.

I'm 19 btw.

You're wrong. Hi is never a bad opener.

Why are you asking if you're not going to take the advice?

Oh, you've been with enough women - right.

Re-read what I wrote.

Believe I made an edit while you were replying...

would "Hi, you'e adorable" work?

I also want to have a different interaction then just talk for a few minutes and grab her number. I've done that plenty of times and it hardly works for me. The times i close are usually the same night I meet them. What if I pulled some Willy Beck material and made out with her during the day so that she's way more invested and attracted by something that no one has ever done to her before?

I've actually just read some of your other threads and posts... So it's making more sense now. You don't actually want any advice you're given, it seems?

"Hi, you're adorable?" Then pull out some material that is CLEARLY incongruent with who you are... You do get that your entire problem here is that you already think she is amazing and you've never said a word to her, right?

Good luck with that dude. I told you what I think... Maybe another user will tell you what you'd like to hear.

Appreciate the advice, I will try to use. I watch simple pickup on youtube and they have a different approach to meeting women. Sort of more direct and are brutally honest with girls. I'm just not used to being very simple and just saying "hi" when I'm throwing myself at them and when it's obvious that I want her. I usually think of something clever or funny so that the interactions starts off well. But for this girl I can't seem to think of anything.
I'm also punishing myself by not going out tonight because I didn't approach her after my class today. FML

This line of thinking is super dangerous when it comes to beliefs about women. Some of the most innocent seeming women I have been with have been wild in the sack.

You have built this big image in your head about her, how superior she is because she seems ''innocent'' and is an ''angel'' You have placed her on a pedestal, you are starting off in the wrong FRAME and mindset you want to be in.

She's just a girl, you haven't even spoken a word to her yet so for all you know she could be super boring.

Man up, go over to her after class and introduce yourself, ask her out.

Then go approach more women. Remember she is ONLY a woman, there are many just like her...even better.

BTW, if you think she's never kissed a guy during the day, you are deluded about the opposite sex.

Women are super sexual creatures...They LOVE sex, and your girl is no different.

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I understood that you may want something a little bit more original to break the ice? I see that some of my fellows pua already gave you some great advice. I'll skip that part and concentrate in the actual approach. Since it seems you're not sure of what to say...lets not force an approach. We want to avoid by any means look nervous or not relax. lets try something without saying a word just to get you a little bit confident before starting to actually speak with her.

Since you're in class, try to sit down besides her. While the professor is talking, in a piece of paper draw a tic tac toe scheme # And put the "X" in the bottom square. Below that, ask a question... it'd look like this:

#x.... Are you always this quiet or just shy around good looking people? Most likely she will make her move in tic-tac-toe and answer your question. Or you can make fun of the proffesor...is it me or he looks like "someone famous that looks funny"? And I guarantee that she'll smiling.

Do that for the rest of the class, this is buying time to get your groove right to actually finish the pick up.

If you need help following up with topics or something I can get you some ideas.


Bonne chance my friend!

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everyone said the basics and you even got a great opener. it's college easiest game in the world. watch jestin wayne vids that would be perfect for you as well. on campus you can invite her to a drink (smoothie ice cream) or lunch after class. just instance date her. what you say isn't that important which is why the advice on hi was spot on. the timing is the most important. you've already used more time on this post than it would have taken to say hi and get the girl.

One of the weirdest things when approaching women is the fact that if you just say Hi to a girl, and stand there
with the EXPECTATION that she will say Hi to you back, 9 times out of 10 she will.

So if you walk up to her and say, "Hey, Hi..." She will look at you and say, "Hi..."

And then you take it up from there with having a conversation.

Ask her NORMAL questions relating to the class. So you can say, "So how do you like the class?"

I give you, it may feel a bit weird if you make yourself believe it's weird.

But if you keep your frame as "I'm just a normal guy who is starting a conversation with a
fellow class-mate..." than after couple of seconds she will
perceive you like that too.

The key thing is to NOT THINK ABOUT IT too much.

I had a similar experience when I was in college - I had a girl in class, and she was so sweet that nobody
ever dared to talk to her.

As we were walking out of the class one day, I positioned myself so that we exit the class together
"accidentally", and I said, "So how do you like the class"

I didn't even say Hi or anything like that.

We had a nice conversation, and because I was the only guy who ever spoke with her in class, she remembered
me and we started hanging out - and eventually dated.

So as you're leaving the class, try to position yourself so you guys just "happen" to walk out together, shoulder
to shoulder. Then, assume the friendship and say something.

You'll see it works.

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Hello everyone: Update on my current situation. I still have pussied out on opening this one girl in this class, almost like I'm being held back by something. But the good news is that a different HB9 is in the class and I started talking to her and I got her number. We are going to study together for the final starting Wednesday (today). I plan on asking her to my fraternity's formal this weekend. After she accepts I will at somepoint go in for a kiss/makeout. BUT, I must and I say I MUST talk to the other girl in my class in order for me to live on with my life. So do any of you think that it is possible for me to bring TWO dates to my formal this weekend. They both like me, but how would I pull it off correctly???

Yeah bro you've been held back by something, YOU. Glad to hear about the other option but in reality I see you falling into your own vices again, this time just down the line if you don't fix something. I get the feeling from following you on this post some self development would do wonders. We all need it, there's no better time for you than now.

"I must talk to..." Wow, way to put so much pressure on yourself. Would you be nervous about talking to me in class? I consider myself pretty attractive but really don't believe there would be any hint of anxiety chatting with me. Even your earlier post about being able to approach with a little liquid courage screams out inner game help.

It's great that your on these forums but it doesn't seem like your actually open to learning as I found the first response to you situation good advice.

I take classes at a local community college. I see potential in class, before, during whatever I go up and say "Hey!" (Big smile) blah blah blah. Really it's that easy. Tell them your going to sit next to them and actually do it. Be interesting and interested, have a personality, work with what gifts god gave you. It will work or it won't. But, I guarantee there are plenty more.

I feel like your so young, not even legal drinking age, the best concept for you to master is inner game and with that chicks will fall on you with the simplest direct game. A good place to start would be David DeAngelos 'How to be a man'.

If this hits home and leaves you a little teary eyed or upset... Then it's truer than you'd like to believe and you should read it again.

Knowing how little you know can make you one of the smartest people.

Feel free to pm me, or not, idgaf

Treat her different and she'll act different.

You can say whatever you want. Just be confident and aim to move things in a forward direction.

" hi " is just fine.

" Hey you're hot" is just fine as well. Its all in your delivery.

If you delivery a weak ass unconfident " Hi" it won't be successful. Deliver a confident one and it will.

No need to follow some guys on youtube, the root of this game is confidence. What you do or what you say doesn't matter so much as the spirit that you do it in.

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