This is a fun one. Here is a timeline of where I have come and what has happened over the years. I realize now that because my Inner Game has been propelled you will see a fun shift in my personal beliefs.

With that back in the day when I was just barely 19...(but getting laid)

19 yrs old (flashback)
Girl: I'm moving back to Seattle, WA my hometown.
Me: But I LOVE you.
Girl: You don't love me you love the idea of me

29 yrs old (1 yr in The Game and on our 1st Date ) (Watch me haggle with this lady who was totally blowing smoke up my chain and never actually moved)
Target: I'm probably moving to GA.
Me: Why? You shouldn't move because moving is expensive and especially if you are moving for a job it is worthless becuase if you lose that job then you are stranded in the middle of nowhere.
Target: I like that idea and I still think I am going to move cuz then I can just be with my son forever and it will be JUST us.

31 yrs old (Today in the Hair Salon)
Rotation Target: What IF I left? Like what IF I moved out of the state.

Notice the very careful phrasing of "What if" Someone about to go jogging or talk a walk in the park is not going to sit there and think "well what if I go for a walk in the park" they are just going to F'in do it. For instance if I was moving I would say "I'm moving here for xyz reasons" no outside reasoning needed. I find this to be a bit of a fitness test and most the times the girls never move but sometimes they do. Fast forward.

PUA: I would find someone else, I would move on.



I love how classical my response was and this nonchalant attitude of "abundance mindset" pays off big time. Notice here unlike the times before I didn't try to convince them the reasons why not to, or try to logically talk them out of it I simply accepted the reality and embraced it. This caused the target in rotation to shift her entire frame to match mine where before I was constantly stuck on the "oh she's moving" I completely talk my target down from the ledge. She brought it up and boom it was handled. She then proceeded to tell me why she was done with relationships to which I said I didn't believe her. Then she goes on to say that I work too far away! Shame on me to not be close to her! Hrmm sounds someone let a snake loose cus I smell a rat. Something didn't smell right this is why I know she was testing me in the Hair Salon today. For what purpose? I have no idea since I passed with flying colors still it's not like she is desperately trying to date me so therefore I will continue to rotate and lose her in the rotation. Then she tries to talk me out of getting back with my Ex! Yeah I think she is trying to pull the wool over my eyes. Not so fast missy! Going to have to do better than that to trick me hardy har har har!