We make out,i finger her but she would not let me advance.I have been hoping things would get better and 1 day she would drop her shield.
Its been 8 months nw.
When we are chatting she says things like i love you,i miss you like crazy.when we finally meet,she make me feel like a serial rapist.
Do i keep trying(hoping things would change) or do i just stay without girls(been getting numbers,but all are flakes)?
Thanks

Have you actually asked her why she doesn't want to have sex?

That might be the place to start.

Quit the mind games and the guesswork -- she's your girlfriend.

Thanks for the reply.
U are absolutely right.
My fear is if I talk to her and she says no then what next?
(I knw this sounds like a stupid question to some of u,but your answer would really mean a lot to me).
Thanks

Sorry what does that mean - "what if she says no?"

Says no to what? Ask her to give you a reason. Do it calmly and in a really non-accusing way.

If she can't give you a reason... Then you need to decide if you'd like to be in a sex-less relationship. Pretty sure that wouldn't work for me... But I don't know you...

Your needs aren't being met. And she needs to be aware of that.

If she's doing one of those "wait for marriage" things, I think you'd want to know about that.

8 months and you've yet to have sex with this girl?

Have you had sex with this girl?

Or has she suddenly stopped the regular sex?

If it is the former....DO NOT GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP TILL YOU ARE PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY CONNECTED. Don't be a chode.

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Its simple you are looking at one of three options

Option 1: shes screwing someone else behind your back

Option 2: she wants to wait till marriage

Option 3: You're just an option for her because trust me there's no way that any woman willing goes 8 months without sex and that's a fact

I know it sounds cynical but I'm speaking from experience. I suggest you confront it head on if she gets mad at you then she probably wasn't serious about the two of you from the get go. either way better to get it out in the open instead of wasting your time simple as that and also go with your gut regardless of what she says 9 times out of 10 it right. Good Luck

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8 months. 240 days. Two hundred. And forty. Days.
There honestly is no reason why any functional human being should have to go through this.

Talk to her OP. But please report back because I'm actually curios outta my mind what's going on here.

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I asked her when we were going to start having sex and she acted shocked by the question.
She didn't want to spend even 1 minute on the subject,my temper got escalated and I drove her out and that was the end of the relationship.
Feeling really down and fucked up.
Thanks for the advice.

Called her on her BS. Time waister. Unless you asked like a total prick. But really when you have to ask when you're going to have sex, and what after 8 months and the girl freaks out...its prob time to move on.


Men and women are sexual beings. No wonder you felt like crap you felt sexually awkward around her and internalized her issue. That's not healthy, find somebody who loves sex as much as you do.

The fact she would not field (or even entertain) a completely fair question about your relationship should be very telling to you, man.

Maybe she's scared thats all you want. I think girls get nervous when guys make a big deal out of it. Try to talk to her about it but dont act like she owes it to you