We met on okcupid and chatted for 2 nights during the week before she didn't reply. About 2 weeks later I asked how she was going and what she had planned for valentines. She ended up inviting me out to town with her and a few of her friends. I met her out the front with a rose. Got along with her friends and her. Then she went into one of those weird woman moments where they put themselves down and your meant to comfort them. (first time I've had to experience it directly). Then we Danced together and then she iniated the first kiss. We kissed for a bit until she suggested we get some KFC. We chatted a bit more and got along real well. She added me on fb (her idea). Then she went back to her friends house via taxi. We kissed goodbye. (there was no way I could F close. She wasn't keen on an hour bus trip back to mine.)

Asked her the following day how she pulled up small talk followed into the next day in which case I asked if she wanted to go out for dinne. She rejected due to work but was really sorry and was keen for next time I was home (I work away). Messaged her a few days later small talk etc. over the next week. Was going good and then I asked her out for coffee. No reply. I'm using fb messages so I know she's read it. I messaged her the next day with if your after something a little more romantic we could go here. She didn't read it. Haven't heard from her yet over the last 3 weeks. I didn't want to push and come across as needy.

Now I fly off to work tomorrow for a week and was wondering is there any chance of reviving this? So when I get back in a weeks time we could catch up? She's occasionally on okcupid and hasn't deleted me on Facebook nor snapchat. I haven't seen any pics of a new man in her life or anything.

Back off. You came across as too needy. Too much chasing and not enough pulling away. You also let her lead a bit too much. Don't react to women. Make them react to you.

You also should've said you're not on facebook. Now you've destroyed the mystery and there's no mystique about you. She's seen all your pictures, she's seen all your lame comments, she knows what movies and music you like. Now you're boring to her! Which is why you should never 'facebook close'.