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PostPosted: Sat Mar 07, 2015 11:57 pm 
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So everyting is cool between my GF and me,we laugh play have sex and all that,she texts that she loves me like a psycho and shit....Than this happens.

Her grandma got into the hospital for surgery and it went well,i was after work and the hospital was very far,so my GF asks me if i want to come there to visit and i say no it's f@cking far but give her a kiss and a hug from me.

That same night i went out with a friend to get a drink and to talk about some project we want to do..She calls and says she wants to come too to relax,i tell her yes sure..Than we got a little drunk and she says she is going home and i should come with her,i told her "noooooo..oh wait.you have beer-count me in"(i was joking,I know it's a little harsh and said i'm sorry and there was no bad intention,she doesn't believe me).

So than she asked me if I'll stop drinking and hang out less with my friends for her-I sais no.

Now she's telling me she's confused and wants time,i called in the morning she said she can't talk and that she'll call me later,after 7 hours i texted her "where are you love",after a no response for 2 hours i called again and she didn't pick up the phone.........

Pls give me your thoughts and what should i do next....


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 08, 2015 7:39 pm 
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Wait a short while for her to collect herself and text you back. If she doesn't get back to you soon, then reach out to her.

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 08, 2015 8:02 pm 
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So we talked and she says that she loves and misses me but she's very offended and "doesn't have the power" to deal with it now.

I can't let go if she has feelings,cause accept this mistake I did everything was perfect.

What to do bros i fucking love her


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 08, 2015 9:26 pm 
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Chill out. Back off and keep yourself busy.

She'll call, man.

May take some time but she will.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 09, 2015 5:40 pm 
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Sober up and stop acting so immature? Her grandma is having surgery and all you want to do is hit the bar and pound some cold ones? Im not telling you that that is wrong... but right now your GF is sensitive and any small thing will set her off. Sense this and just spend time with her... thats all she wants is you to care.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 09, 2015 9:29 pm 
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Yeah I understand and that's what I want to do,but she doesn't let me,what to do so she will..

I know I was stupid and I wanna make it up to her


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So everyting is cool between my GF and me,we laugh play have sex and all that,she texts that she loves me like a psycho and shit....Than this happens.

Her grandma got into the hospital for surgery and it went well,i was after work and the hospital was very far,so my GF asks me if i want to come there to visit and i say no it's f@cking far but give her a kiss and a hug from me.

That same night i went out with a friend to get a drink and to talk about some project we want to do..She calls and says she wants to come too to relax,i tell her yes sure..Than we got a little drunk and she says she is going home and i should come with her,i told her "noooooo..oh wait.you have beer-count me in"(i was joking,I know it's a little harsh and said i'm sorry and there was no bad intention,she doesn't believe me).

So than she asked me if I'll stop drinking and hang out less with my friends for her-I sais no.

Now she's telling me she's confused and wants time,i called in the morning she said she can't talk and that she'll call me later,after 7 hours i texted her "where are you love",after a no response for 2 hours i called again and she didn't pick up the phone.........

Pls give me your thoughts and what should i do next....
Stop with the tough guy cocky funny act it makes you look like a dickhole. Most women are turned off by it that's wh y there are so many guys on here in the relationship forum (if they're even lucky enough to get to that point) frantically searching for ways to keep their relationship together. Sound familiar???

Give her space. If you've apologized good, if not then you'd better do it ASAP. But I'd do so in a letter or email, particularly if she's not picking up her phone.


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 10, 2015 1:57 pm 
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I don't know I don't think that the "give her time" thing will work,she'll just forget and that's it..I have to do something don't you think?


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 10, 2015 2:02 pm 
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I don't know I don't think that the "give her time" thing will work,she'll just forget and that's it..I have to do something don't you think?
No, I don't... I think she's not special, or different, or the exception to any rule.

She's a girl, and she'll text you or call you once she figures out you have other options and aren't going to chase her.

Something tells me you're not going to listen to this advice anyway...


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 10, 2015 8:53 pm 
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No no you're right..I'll do it,I just hope it's the right shit to do.


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 12, 2015 1:18 pm 
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MODERATOR: Please create a separate thread for this issue... Do not hijack other peoples' threads/issues.


Guys I really really need your help! I have been with my girlfriend for a year now and I love her to bits...
I'm at uni but work as a doorman just now(I'm 21) we met one night last year on the door and everything was amazing! A year later down the line and we were- until the last few days sooo loved up! She would send me stuff that the pua community and my friends would consider psycho- mentioning how she can't wait to get married live with me, how she 'worships the ground I walk on and can't imagine herself without me it make me feel sick' were here exact words in a text two weeks ago

We both work Monday to Friday so we spend the weekends together. When we first met she was the party girl type loved going out drinking etc then when she got with me a few months into the relationship she changed and kept saying how she would love nothing more than to sit in and chill and watch a movie with me at the weekends rather than go out with her friends at weekends etc.

All was well, she took up a online uni course and got a promotion at work where her workload increases significantly but not until the next few months...

Friday 6 march( last week) I had finished work in the morning and had uni etc so came home and went to sleep so we agreed she could just come through on the Saturday! We studied when she came through but she hadn't been eating anything- strange for her she's skinny with such an appetite! Basically the night went well, had sex on Sunday and then in the afternoon she said her friend text her for a catch up so she went to see her! It's her friends bday this coming up soon so their going out on Saturday (fine with me) but I asked her if I was going to see her on the Friday or Sunday and she said we both had studying to do etc! Now this wrang alarm bells because she always made time for me. We then had an argument over it and she said she needs time and space to let her 'hair down' and go out and get drunk with her friends- that's cool with me.

So she basically said I was adding to her list of stresses and I said to her I'll give her space. She ended up changing her SPAM picture yesterday and I lost it... I went out and spoke to her mum.. We get on well! She said she had seen a change in her and said to her and she said she doesn't know if she wants to be in a LTR anymore... I've agreed to give her space till next week, I'll leave it over the week mark and then we can meet up and decide what's happening!

What do I do from here???
I'm madly in love with this girl, she does soo much for me and was madly in love with me (says she still is) ??
I'm going back to my home city for the weekend and she's going out in her home city so we are over 100 miles away from each other... We both said we will know if there's anything there for the future for us if she feels things for me whilst we don't talk for the week or so and she gets her head straight! Were still in a relationship she said and on FB but how do I make sure she longs for me? Photos of the night out I'm going on? Photos of me with other girls? (We've never been like that, more than loyal and we would never like other girls or guys pictures on FB, even if you think their hot which you see soo many guys doing these days)

I need help guys

SALI


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 12, 2015 1:43 pm 
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Hey SALI --

You should create a new thread for your issue... and not hijack this one...

I've edited your post so this thread stays on topic...


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Just stop bro.

She'll get over this quick.

You've made a good deal of effort to reach out.

This isn't a big deal at all and so long as you chill out she'll be contacting you in no time.

My girl tries to pull shit like this when she feel like she wants more emotional investment out of me. When in all actuality she just wants to know I love her and feel my strength.

Don't go compromising what you stand for because she threw a hissy fit, more so let her know you care, but you stand for what you stand for and she needs to respect that.

Cool it bro. She'll contact you in 3 days or less.

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