so im not gonna bore ya with my story which i guess is pretty similar or was pretty similar to all yours. Suffice to say i'm a decent looking guy who doesnt get as many girls as he should. When I know someone I can make them laugh pretty easily and i'm definately a fun interesting guy. My problem is I clam up with people I dont know. When I go to clubs to get over this problem i end up using alcohol and end up going way overboard and acting really stupid (you prob already know this but theres a BIG drinking culture in Ireland.)when i do occasionally get with a girl I don't remember what she looks or acts like so I don't want to text her after incase we don't get along. So basically my question is do you need to be completely sober when sarging? Thanks for any answers.

I think most people here say u should be sober. But I think it's probably ok to have one beer (but no more) before starting.