Well, i am new to the forum and i've been reading some topics since a while. I came here to ask a question.

A hot girl match me at Tinder, so i waited a couple hours to talk and i used my traditional opener (didn't failed yet with other girls).

The problem is that seems like the last time she opened Tinder was when she match me, it says "4 days ago", on the field that shows the last time online. I got her facebook and i want to add and start the talk by facebook.

My question is: Should i do that? And i can't think of any nice opener, just some that makes me like a weak guy or something.

Thank you for any help. (I'm still learning english, so sorry for any stupid grammar mistakes)

So ----- Let me actually get this straight ---- you used an opener and didn't get a response because she hasn't been online in 4 days?

Yet you have her Facebook... How did you get that if you haven't talked to her yet? You stalked her then?

Don't reach out via FB. Very creepy... What would you even say?

"Hey it's the guy you matched with on Tinder - I stalked you and found your Facebook profile, because I have no other matches and just need to talk to you"?

And make no mistake, BTW, if it's a good looking girl, she has dozens or hundreds of matches... not just you.

Wait for her to come back online, dude...

Also - I've used some great openers on Tinder. Ones that are tried and tested and get excellent response rates... I still sometimes don't get replies, or I get unmatched... It happens, and it's not the end of the world. Just move onto the next girl.

Why so invested in this one?

You're right. I got her facebook cuz we have a mutual friend, but still seems lik a stalker, I didn't think this way. Ty

I don't know about Tinder, but doing this kind of stuff in Facebook *almost* never works, at least for me.

The way I see it, it's a very good thing to approach girls face-to-face instead of through social networks. The more you do it, the more you realize you don't need any of that stuff to meet women. I honestly only use facebook to look her up, see who her friends are and what does she like - and that's not even creepy, since girls choose what to put there.

Cheers

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