Can someone please help me. I'm just the most beta man in the world right now.

If you seen my previous posts, one moment my gf LDR loved me and wanted to move in with me after she finished college, the next i say i want to go work abroad for 3 months, she ends it.

I saw her this week end when i was visiting a friend, didn't know she would be out, she cried loads saying she loved me but wanted to talk tomorrow. Went round the next day and we both cried, and she said she loved me but wanted to move on.

larlarlar. I left, we text a bit, since i thought we cant be fucking friends, so i told her and deleted her off facebook.

I just love her so much and want to make it work, she has no interest in making the LDR work any more for some reason. I just want to call hertext her, i know i shouldn't. I feel as though shes got 100000 things over me.

Argh. The most annoying thing, despite what people will say is that we got on so well together, and until i said i wanted to work abroad for 3 months it was fine. I could see myself having kids with this girl one day, but shes just gone and fucked it up, not sure if it was drama she needed? or what ever, but its so easy to say move on, forget her etc... but seriously, how often do amazing girls come along? otherwise we wouldnt be on here.

Alright well deleting her off Facebook and not talking to her is going to be an issue. I mean that doesn't exactly send "let's try to work this out." Anyways man I guess it seriously boils down to how important is going to work abroad for 3 months versus this girl. She was waiting until after school then extending things even longer hurt her.

At this point honestly I'm not sure if you running into her arms telling her you choose her over that would do it but it is worth a try. You need to make a decision right now. If you really think this is "the one" and you want to have babies with her then you have a decision to make: Girl or 3 months abroad?

I don't care if you are the most ALPHA guy out there or whatever man if you love that woman you better get off the damn forum and go find her before she's gone and make it work. There's a time to be ALPHA, there is a time to have your frame set and all that stuff. If she's THE ONE and headed out of your life then no amount of ALPHA guy PUA bullshit matters, find her, work it out no matter what it takes, and get the damn girl! You'll never forgive yourself otherwise wondering what might have been.

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

Every damned day! If she's that awesome Bro, would't she back you up on studying abroad instead of cutting bait and jumping ship? Think about it..... it's three months.
That's what happens. although I can't for the life of me figure the fucking reason, she turned you into a simpering gelatinous abomination of what used to be a man.

Your statement indicates a desire to FUBAR the whole thing. Don't. You are the prize .....NOT her.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

I didnt message her. Was so close to but my mind has changed now, fuck i feel like a bloody woman SPAM. mind changing constantly

Protest behavior. So, you can take the risk and go work abroad, she may find a man who'll meet her agenda, or not...


Or you can remain and be with her SO LONG as you don't resent her for it in recognizing that ultimately it is YOUR decision (nobody can make you do anything), and let it go.