So first off im 20.
I was bored and saw an ad for okcupid so i tried it out. At first i couldnt get girls to respond all. so i lowered my standards a little and still nothing. then i started sending more interesting messages and basically rewrote the ones that worked and now i get about 7/10 girls to respond. But wherever they respond i find out at least 1 of 4 things

1.) Theyre batshit insane
2.) They arent real
3.) They are low value
4.) They arent interested in actually meeting up.

So it seems like it would be pointless to waste time on them. Like ive had whole conversations with many girls about stuff then i ask if they wanna do something or for a number they dont respond. Even the chicks that claim theyre just looking for sex or to meet new people.

So the way i see it is if a guy is 20 and on a dating site he's probably looking for sex. But if a girl is on then usually that means there's a reason guys arent going for her in real life or she's just looking to boost her ego. i can understand women that are like 25+ may not have time to meet people like that because of work or whatever.

So do i just not have online game or is this normal for people my age?

You need great pics.

Also try Tinder.

For some guys, online game is a tax for guys who don't have verbal game and know how to rap with a woman in the real world where you will be with her anyway if you meet up with the girl. In other words, game irl.