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A couple weeks ago I met a really hot girl and her friend at the bar. They came over to my place which is by walking distance from the bar and we chilled, drank and talked for a bunch of things. When the girl left I added her on Facebook since we decided we would go out together again. Anyway the next day she deactivated her account and after so long she is back on it and we're still friends. How can I ask her to go out with me? Should I tell her to bring the friend too? I mean I could ask her out but pretty sure she forgot who I am by now, it's been like two months we haven't heard from each other... I want to ask her out and be spontaneous about it and don't wanna come off as a creep....
Alright so first off, oops on not getting her number when she was in your place. You have a shitty contact now on Facebook and she's back after two months going where do I know him from. You are going to need to if possible establish contact on Facebook and do the where do I know you from thing with her. Then find a way to build some common ground again so she feels comfortable enough with you to hang out again. Whatever rapport you had is likely lost, you're doing a "warm approach" in a sense having met her before but you are almost at step 0 again. Get her talking, build rapport so she remembered why she liked hanging with you that time, get her #. Move her from talking online to text to in person as quickly as possible, and set a date. If it drags out too long on FB you become one of those friends she only talks to online and you're sunk.
Good luck man!
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