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She is not shit testing you. I've said these things before to a guy that I felt he was feeling he was a little bit cold towards me and we didn't have the connection that I wanted.
All it indicates is that she is into you. She is not looking elsewhere for attention. Give her what she wants here and there as a random pattern. It will keep her satisfied, not looking to find it from someone else but don't make it regular to keep her on her toes. Also as timing .. chose to do it when she is not asking. You don't want her to believe that nagging works.
Too cold is not good. Mix it up to keep it interesting.
Agreed this is not a shit test. Some girls need more from their guys than others. My fiance' is this way she'd get upset if I didn't text her throughout the day at times early on. Some of it is a security thing with some women. They have this great guy they feel they don't deserve and they want to know you are as into her as she is into you. Set a reminder and send her a message in the morning for a few days without her asking. It will earn you some points. Not saying you have to do it every day but the unexpected gifts are the best. Send her a quick message "Good morning, hope you slept well. Kick butt today!" or whatever definitely is a morale boost for her. It is not like she is asking for a lot here, just a little time investment on your part while pay off 10 fold with her.