Hey guys,

So i have been in an amazing relationship with an awesome Italian girl for 1.4 years now she was a virgin when we dated, I am her second boyfriend.

So the problem I am having is that I do everything when it comes to sex for this girl to make her cum, anything she wants I'll do it and I don't care how disgusting it is. But in 1.4 years of us being together she finds it disgusting to go down on me. I kept on saying to myself I'm sure she'll come around but I don't think this will happen.
Sex has become boring because she refuses to do anything fun because she doesn't want to feel like a slut according to her.

I actually love this girl but I don't know how to address this situation? I have told her many many times but she just says that she feels like a slut if she was to give me a blowjob or any weird sex positions.

I just feel like I give 100% and she just takes and gives nothing back in the sex department. What should I do?

Tell her that.

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Part of relationships is communication obviously. If you really love her and have a relationship you want to continue with her then you need to be able to talk to her, especially about sex. It is all in how you present it. Don't make it some TV sitcom sit down big thing just tell her you were thinking about the last time you guys made love and how you feel.

One of a few things will happen depending on your girl.

1. She will start talking about how she doesn't know if she can do it, and how it is disgusting and all that stuff. Which is basically just her nice way of telling you it isn't going to happen.

2. She cares about you enough that she gives it a real try even if it bothers her because she loves you.

3. She just flat out tells you No.

4. She might do another stall tactic to say well maybe eventually kinda thing.

Sex is an important part of a relationship but you need to make up your mind before talking to her if this is something that is worth breaking up over. Can you live without it? Can you live without her?

Best of luck!

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1. Figure out how important this is to you.

2. Deal with it or tell her that you think sex is a big part of a relationship and that although you love her you aren't sure if yall are compatible in this department. Either she will try to be more outgoing in the bedroom or you'll have to break it off.

3. Don't get in to a relationship from now on thinking "I'll change her later". That's the kind of thinking that leads you in to really rough territory down the road (like this).

That's the stone cold truth right there.

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No No No. god, don't push her to do something she doesn't want. this community is cancerous sometimes. I'm sorry but isn't it true that girls want to feel like dirty sluts while your fucking them. I've always seen that as part of the arrousal. i think she's not comfortable enough to have sex and for her to be your sex slave. build some comfort. so that she will WANT to do it.

She is mediterannean and she has that emotional block that if she tries new things you are going to start seeing her as a slag. So she is not thrilled by the idea.
She is also inexperienced and she is afraid of trying something new. It is the unknown.
Usually when you start having sex you get a satisfying amount of pleasure doing simple stuff. You don't need to spice things up.
There is a possibility that she genuinely doesn't like the type of sex you want. This means that you two are incompatible on that department. If that's the case you should give up trying to get her doing new things and have a talk with her if she agrees to open the relationship so you can have sex with another woman that satisfies you more. Even with this conversation ( which should be used as a last resort) she will get alerted and reconsider her actions.

Not bad Maria, do you like butt sex?

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@jablow

I am fat and ugly. Not your type of fantasy.

Whoa, easy on the wedding bells there Kitten, I just asked you as a 'modern woman' if you enjoy more than conventional missionary type sex?

I already get the vibe your boobs are gross......

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Don't ever think "you will change" someone. You won't. Simple as that.

She's not in touch with her sexuality. For whatever reason. You do what you want OP, but personally I gave up on that type of woman a long time ago.
Confidence is the most amazing quality she can have in the bedroom and I swear to god that shit resonates throughout your entire relationship.

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No wonder you can't get laid (save for paying a woman).

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Cool, HeywoodSoreJaw. Ask her how the afterlife is, will ya?