Every girl has some form of baggage. If you set a strong frame from the start, as in "I'm not interested in your past drama and if that's what you're looking to do, I'm not interested in pursuing this further" kind of vibe. Result: She will either shut the fuck up and respect you or she will dump you. Both outcomes are good for you.

Girls will only give you as much bullshit as you let them get away with. Your frame needs to be stronger. It's really not that much effort once you've got it down. Just don't get emotionally involved in her drama and deal with your own insecurity and jealousy issues.

Just immerse yourself in it n eventually it WILL become 2nd nature. The body adapts to whtever advances placed upon it, it has to 'cause it has no choice. Keep going through the ups n downs; ups n downs ain't shit cause life is already transitory. When u just keep goin' sayin "fuck it, seein' things to the end 'cause it'll define me a better admirable n more attractive man", you'll get there. WHT WE THINK ABOUT MOST WE BECOME AS OUR THOUGHTS MOLD OUR STATE BECOMING OUR DEFAULT SETTING SO THT WE MAY CHANGE OUR LIVES FILLIN IT UP WITH GREATNESS. total caps happy stg.

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Do tht n ya'know attractive women will cm in your life ←take tht phrase any way u wish.

Then just be the baddest charming smirking devilish handsome chap bastard u know u can be tht way they can let u spread em', wet em', n slide all up in em'. You want tht in your life? U sure? You can handle tht? U CAN??!! GOOD do it

^ One of the best posts on this forum. A wise man.

Even if they immerse themselves in it. They still have a fundamental dislike for women. Immersion will only cause them to feel in-congruent with their intent. They will just end up unhappy even when they get girls.

They have to change the belief or nothing else matters.

For instance, many people hate their jobs. They are immersed in the job and go to it every day for years...And they still hate the job.

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True. The problem is that, many women are embracing sloot gonna sloot, hypergamy once SMV (sexual market value) fails so, marriage and children are the next best alternative as well as the financial opportunity failure will bring her. So, SMV is great however, if her baggage supersedes what she brings, it is not worth it.
The last part is good about the outcomes being good for you. Boundaries are essential. Radical feminism will shake their fist followed by rants about not controlling her. Simply put, I have certain things I expect in a woman so, I do not commit to sexually provocative women. I do not turn a whore into a house wife. I do not date girls who have "girl nights out" which is running around being a attention whore and poaching free drinks. I do not date drunks or drug addicts.
There is no perfect girl. Such a thing does not exist. You train her. She trains you. You click.

Truth. Most do not want to do the time so, they live a mediocre life.
It is definitely a process. We are not taught to do meditation growing up or do yoga. We are not taught about the more important things yet, we are bombarded with kim kardashian sloot gonna sloot sex tape. We are bombarded by more celebrity gossip and low level consciousness rubbish. If you take into account KK and her SMV, she pimped herself out for monetary gain also known as prostitution. Most women are trying to emulate the behavior, have her entitlement but are nowhere near her SMV or income status. The point is that, her peak SMV was what? 23 when she did the vid. Its gone down since and it will rapidly decline even with Madonnas sleep chamber. Men age too but, there is something attractive in it to younger women. In short, life experience and age is attractive but, financial prosperity is definitely part of it. The process will take time but, you have time and women do not. Men with money, looks, and power are not running around to bang has been SMV women. It takes time for men to reach their peak SMV.
I watched Hitch recently. Some people (Will Smith) seem to have that natural charm and charisma. They seem to like people and people like them. They seem to have it figured out. Something the movie said:

“My business is 100 percent referral and thus far untraceable. And if there’s one thing I’ve learned when you orchestrate, coordinate and otherwise mess with fate, it’s best to fly under the radar.” - Hitch

I think the last part is not mentioned much in PU. If you do cold approach PU, chaos theory, the butterfly effect, fate, and a variety of things should be of interest to you. We open up the flood gates of infinite possibility. Someone like JB was not subtle or under the radar but rather, obnoxiously fucking shit up and blowing things up. I believe advanced game is a bunch of subtle little things done correctly. What it is and what people think it is are entirely different.