The world is full of interesting, wonderful women. True, most of them are locked into doing what they were taught, but hey! We're going to fix that, right?

Because this course is on Building A Better Girlfriend, you've got to have one in the first place. So pick one you really want, and use all your Speed Seduction skills to attract, seduce and satisfy her.

Are you with me? Now, since you and she are human beings and this is the real world, I'm willing to bet that you've got a normal girl with some good qualities, some things that you don't care about one way or the other, and a few quirks that practically have you chewing the carpet.

In other words, you have the Mark I model human female - but at least (thanks to your SS skills) you have one that YOU CHOSE, instead of settling for one you only thought you could get.

Now It Really Gets Interesting! It's time to apply the Six Steps To Ecstasy. And they are as follows:

1. Deepening permanent rapport.
2. Identifying her most precious values and rules.
3. Identify and lock-in what you find valuable.
4. Create an "other place" in her mind.
5. Describe and make real the new elements of thoughts, feelings and behaviors, and
lock them in.
6. Give her a cookie - create an unstoppable propulsion system.

Let's define each step, and then we'll go over them in more detail. When we first get involved with someone, we have some level of rapport. And that level is fine for getting started. But as you know, sometimes misunderstandings arise and that wonderful rapport vanishes, leaving us wondering what the hell happened. So the first step is to establish a powerful sense of rapport, one she can feel through every minute of every day, one that she can rely on to provide warmth and strength coming from you to her from the inside of her mind. Next, we need to carefully elicit exactly what her most important values are, along with the rules that are associated with those values. We want to find out what is most important in her life, in what priority. What are her challenges, and what is her sense of her personal possibilities? And what are the rules she uses to determine whether her values are being met?

The third step is to identify, isolate and make permanent those feelings, beliefs and behaviors that you find most desirable in her. Before launching off on behaviour modification/training/installation, why not make sure that what you like already is safeguarded?

Is she already adventurous? Does she like doing things for you? Is she warm and outgoing? Does she have a spiritual side? Find what you value most and make sure to lock it in.

The fourth step is where the WAY COOL STUFF begins to happen. We are going to create a special place INSIDE HER MIND - a safe and secure place, one where she can begin to wonder and fantasize. A place that allows her to play, to explore - a place where all of her hopes and desires, all of her secret fantasies can become true. And since we are helping her find this
place within herself, only the two of us will ever have access to it! Get this – people do not believe things in isolation, they believe things in context! So as she finds herself drawn more and more to explore her/our special place of fantasy and fulfillment, she moves away from all previously held beliefs and behaviors! And (God, it gets even better!) because ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE AND TRUE IN HER SPECIAL PLACE, she will naturally and easily follow your suggestions to create an acceptable and pleasing context for the new ideas, beliefs and behaviors!

Five -- Describe and make real the new elements of thoughts, feelings and behaviors, and lock them in. Words have tremendous power, and this is the time to pull out all the stops. When we name a thing, we make it real. And as we describe it, we bring it to life. Again! When we name a thing, we make it real. And as we describe it, we bring it to life! Describe your (her) ideal outcome in terms of the ideas required, the beliefs entailed, and the actions desired in vivid terms that engage all the senses while stimulating powerful emotions. Have her step into an example in the present tense with full sensory stimulation, and then zoom it backwards and forwards through time. And then when she can create it, enjoy it and own it, lock it in by moving it inexorably into the spot inside that holds the very essence of who she is.
Six! Since we can't be with her every moment of every day to reinforce and reward her new attitudes and behaviors, we've got to create and install an unstoppable propulsion system. One that will naturally, powerfully and irreversibly keep her moving in the right direction. The Process This process assumes that you are aware of the mechanics of trance induction, and that you are able to induce trance in a conversational framework. It matters not whether you use an overt or covert induction but, because you will be working to establish powerful emotional states linked to behaviors, the process works much better within a somnambulistic state. Light trance states work well also, but it's like the performance tuning garage in my hometown.