Hey!

I'm awexe and I just wanted to write about my latest encounters with women.
You can read more about my background here: topic185975.html

I've been doing some reading about PUA, approaching women etc. Basically, whatever I read comes down to this:
1. Be interesting, not act or try to be someone you are not. Do interesting stuff in your life. Women like that.
2. Be manly, act, take control. Most women like that. And I definitely enjoy being in control.
3. Don't think the girl you are dating is a unicorn shitting rainbows. She probably isn't. Don't ever be needy or desperate or get too attached. If things don't work out, move on. "Go meet 10 other women" is a very good advice.
4. Be kind and honest towards women you date. Avoid hurting them.

The way I act around women reminds the natural game a lot. I just want to be myself, attract women without doing anything extreme, learning specific pickup lines and techniques.

So, yeah. That is about as much as I have learned about PUA.

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Last night I went out to a concert. My ex was there, again. She grabbed me by hand, smiled and said hi, I said - hi and did not even stop. Past is past.

Two girls standing behind me (blonde and brunette, both 8/10) told me I am too tall and cover their vision. I told them they can move in front of me. I found both of them attractive, picked the brunette. I just kept doing small-talk, making jokes about them being short, teasing them. I was not worried at all. A few months back I would have been close to shaking in my boots as if my world was about to crash. At one point I started doing light touches, she did not mind. At one point she leaned backwards, her head right on my chest, so I just put my hands around her. She did not mind, again. She said she wanted to dance, so we danced, then talked some more. After a few hours I walked her and her girlfriend home, it was a long walk, we talked a lot. She seems interesting. Got the number, will ask her out next weekend.

Recently I went to another party. There was one interesting girl, a pretty blonde, with dreaded hair, some small tattoos. I just grabbed her hand and dragged her to dance-floor. I thought it would work, it did. I realized she is ehm... quite aggressive and not girly at all. So, at one point I just pushed her backwards. She was confused for a bit, but pushed me back, she was into it. I pushed her with more power, she pushed me again. Then I just pressed her against the wall and kissed her. It ended up being quite a wild make-out session. I got her number, walked her to her place. She is from a different city, where I have to go on a business trip next weej. Have been texting with her on FB, she says she really wants to meet me. Let's see what happens.

I feel great. I am just being myself, and women seem to quite like that. I haven't even done much, I have simply read some PUA materials, applied some advice that I thought makes sense. The hardest part was accepting that I am actually interesting as a man and don't need to over-think it.

Regards,
Awexe.

That is awesome to hear! I am glad you are doing well and progressing pretty fast!
However, I believe this post should be in the Field Reports section of the forum. Just because that section is meant for you to share your in-field experiences: what worked and didn’t work, and what you learned.
Keep it up though!!

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You are probably right. I was not sure where to put this.

Could a mod move this to field reports?

Anyway, I have quickly returned back to Earth.
I spent the evening with the dreaded-hair chick yesterday. She told me she has a boyfriend and that we can hang out and be friends, she said she really likes me, but that's it.
Not what I expected, but OK. I guess she might have had more beers than I thought she had and was not really herself when we met for first time. It was still very fun to hang out with her yesterday, but I don't plan to date her, or try to have sex. Simple hanging out, or maybe even using her as a wingman (just for the fun of it) - sure!

The other girl is a bit older than me (30 and 26, respectively). She also has a daughter. When we said our goodbyes, she said we could text on Facebook, but she still gave me her number. She did not accept my FB friend request and did not answer to my message either. I will text her on FB tonight with something stupid and funny. If it don't get a good reaction, I forget her.

Tonight I'm heading out again. Let's meet someone new

I'll ask for you

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---Red's Journal
Motivation Mindset="If I can do it, it can be done"
No Fap Mindset="If I fap, I will turn into a god damn retard"

Done