hey, im wondering about one thing (louder bar or night club) so i open with some cool opener .... like... I say " hey baby, you smell like your mother, can we have sex also ?" ....

hehe, seriously, so i open standard random funny but gentle thing, make her smile, easy talk, some serious talk about her( not job , but what shes likes etc) so what im gonna do, once she's getting curious about me? Obviously it's great and I have great life, but i dont wanna talk about it that much(right in club, where I cant spend much time w her,also it's loud etc., also i dont wanna brag at all,because my life is definetely non-standard) girls usually asks about standard boring things (job,school n shit), but it's not exactly what i wanna do ...so how you handle these talks? I mean i usually say something ridiculous (some random funny absurd job, like ...( I am very well dressed, it's obvious I m not a poor loser ) I say I m janitor in zoo, and it always make her laugh again and happy) and then i continue talkin about her... is there any good topic/advices where/how should I direct my conversation with her after we touch each other already a lot, she's havin fun etc or what you usually do?

Everybody's favorite topic is themselves. Don't' talk much about yourself because you will be qualifying yourself. Qualify her and ask her open-ended questions. Find out what she likes to do for fun, her passions, where's she from, etc. Build commonalities and reward her investment with escalation.

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Sometimes, it's not so bad to talk about yourself for a while.

You can let her in to your world just a little bit, you don't have to be totally mysterious all the time.

It's fine if you use a joke to just not be too boring at the beginning, but if she asks you again and wants to know
more about you, you can talk about yourself.

It's OK to show that you're a normal guy.

She'll be able to relate better to you than if you're constantly cracking jokes and not talking about yourself at all.

The IMPORTANT thing is that you don't STAY in talking about yourself. When you answer her question, throw it
back at her and ask her something similar.

If she asks you about what you do, joke with it at first, if she asks again, tell her what you do...and then ask her, "So what about you?"

And for couple of minutes, you are allowed to have a normal conversation. Even if it's about boring stuff. She's getting to know you, so it's not boring to her as much as you think.

And then you can return to the usual ball busting stuff that you do with every girl.

I like to use what she's saying and then turn it around, and find something to tease her about.

So if she's a singer in an all boys band, I'll say something like, "Wow a singer...what's that like to be a singer surrounded with all guys...like when you guys have gigs and stuff, do women hit on you too?"

So use what she's saying to then create a fun conversation. Don't run away from boring.

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