Hello, guys, first-time posting.

I've been lurking around the forum for a couple of months and finally got good enough to get a girlfriend (Massive thanks!!!). We've been dating for just over two months and doing the usual kissing, making out, occasional dry humping (which gets pretty intense). Only recently I began to think about actually having sex with her, which is also the source of my problem. We're both virgins but she's been in way more LTRs than me and I consider this a sign that escalating to sex is going to be a real struggle.

My question is, what should my course of action be? Talk to her about it openly or continue building comfort and let her choose the moment? Bear in mind that the last thing I want is to force her into it.

Thanks in advance!

If you've built enough comfort than you should be building sexual tension. Start making out with her more intensely, kiss her neck, play/suck on her tits, rub/finger/eat her pussy, get her to play with/suck your dick. You do this then she'll be begging you to have sex with her. Don't over think it, just do it, the longer you wait the more pressure is on and the more scared she'll be to do it. Let me know how it goes.

Have you even sucked her blood yet? If not, you are not ready and you will never be accepted into the Vampire family. Least not with that attitude.

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