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sparkx18
PostPosted: Fri Feb 13, 2015 11:49 am 
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Hi I was messaging with my GF last night. Everything was normal until I said " I need to stop distracting you and let you be" as she has a big paper to finish by midnight of the next day

She replied " I'm fine, I will stop bothering you ;-) goodnight"

I replied " you couldn't bother me if you tried your hardest ;-) sleep well :-) "

I Look over it now and her message it is obviously sarcastic and she ignored my message asking her if she slept at all.

Do you think I'm overanalysing this or is she angry? How should I continue thanks :-)
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PostPosted: Fri Feb 13, 2015 1:24 pm 
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Hi I was messaging with my GF last night. Everything was normal until I said " I need to stop distracting you and let you be" as she has a big paper to finish by midnight of the next day

She replied " I'm fine, I will stop bothering you ;-) goodnight"

I replied " you couldn't bother me if you tried your hardest ;-) sleep well :-) "

I Look over it now and her message it is obviously sarcastic and she ignored my message asking her if she slept at all.

Do you think I'm overanalysing this or is she angry? How should I continue thanks :-)
This is no big deal. Forget it. Move on.
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CharlesFinley
PostPosted: Fri Feb 13, 2015 1:42 pm 
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You'll drive yourself nuts trying to pick apart every single message, dude.

Don't bring it up again. Just pretend it never happened.

PS: Do you actually even care if she slept at all? This is a really trivial, silly thing to worry about.
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sparkx18
PostPosted: Fri Feb 13, 2015 2:15 pm 
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Thanks, and the ignoring part so far today? Shall I just let it blow over for today and make contact tomorrow?
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sparkx18
PostPosted: Sat Feb 14, 2015 3:07 am 
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Hasn't even looked at my message, And I don't want to send another ignored message to seem like a loser. She is obviously hurt ( always been a sensitive type). Thanks for the advice to carry on although it's nothing, but I have a feeling it's not the answer.. Anyway Im exactly driving myself nuts about.
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CharlesFinley
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It's adorable when new guys ask for advice and then don't take it.

What would we know, after all?

I seriously struggle to figure out what you think she'd even be upset about...

Why would you want to even date someone so completely fickle that you can't say what you want around them?

You need to chill out. Let her come to you.
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Hasn't even looked at my message, And I don't want to send another ignored message to seem like a loser. She is obviously hurt ( always been a sensitive type). Thanks for the advice to carry on although it's nothing, but I have a feeling it's not the answer.. Anyway Im exactly driving myself nuts about.

You say it, yet you keep doing it.

Maybe she's pre-occupied with her paper deadline, maybe she wants her space, maybe she's in the bathroom stroking her cock to justin beiber

really what only matters is how you're driving yourself nuts with these obsessive thoughts
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sparkx18
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Thanks for all the advice i really do appreciate it and its highly valuable but when your emotions are driving you crazy its sometimes hard to see clearly.

I took your advice today and proceeded as if nothing happened.

I sent her " Happy Valentines Day, when are you planning on arriving?"

She has read this but hasnt replied, she normally replies immediately.

Im not planning on sending anything else, is this the right plan
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Thanks for all the advice i really do appreciate it and its highly valuable but when your emotions are driving you crazy its sometimes hard to see clearly.

I took your advice today and proceeded as if nothing happened.

I sent her " Happy Valentines Day, when are you planning on arriving?"

She has read this but hasnt replied, she normally replies immediately.

Im not planning on sending anything else, is this the right plan
It's your GF if you can't speak to her honestly what's the point of being with her?

If it were me I'd definitely give her a call.
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sparkx18
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Thanks again For every ones comments, I called and she acted just like somebody who was being chased saying I don't know when she will have time for me because of exams ( I know this is complete bull, if you want to see somebody you make time). It's funny that I was the one least interested it's only when i thought I lost her that I started to chase. I'm now grabbing my balls and turning this sh*t around I'm not going to be treated like this.
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Thanks again For every ones comments, I called and she acted just like somebody who was being chased saying I don't know when she will have time for me because of exams ( I know this is complete bull, if you want to see somebody you make time). It's funny that I was the one least interested it's only when i thought I lost her that I started to chase. I'm now grabbing my balls and turning this sh*t around I'm not going to be treated like this.
I agree. I wouldn't tolerate that.

Do your thing her acceptance of you isn't necessary. She's served her purpose, you learned a lesson. Go put some irons on the coal.
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sparkx18
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Do your thing her acceptance of you isn't necessary. She's served her purpose, you learned a lesson. Go put some irons on the coal.

And if she really wants me, she can chase me! Its a great feeling when the cloud lifts from over your eyes and you are clear to your own purpose once again
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Tell her she's an idiot for taking it offensively. Lol. That'll help.
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Do your thing her acceptance of you isn't necessary. She's served her purpose, you learned a lesson. Go put some irons on the coal.

And if she really wants me, she can chase me! Its a great feeling when the cloud lifts from over your eyes and you are clear to your own purpose once again

Or not. She may not chase you at all. Point is you'll have moved on either way.
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