My current girlfriend is 18 and by the time she was 17 had slept with 7 people and been with arround 12/13 now im not too bothered by this but it does seem like quite a lo, she sent pictures to people when she was 13 and had them sent arround called a slut ect... the thing is she has done this with every person she has been texting since without them actually asking, this is the same for oral she was never prompted and just done it out of her own will however i never get any of this. She would only send something if asked and its almost like i have to beg her for oral and when she does its a half harted effort that lasts arround 1/2 mins max before her 'jaw gets sore'.

i tested this by giving her oral unasked for extended periods of time to see if she would return the favour and i got nothing in return litterally nothing. am i being stupid here or am i just doing something wrong?

Tell her, "If you don't do things to me that you don't want to do then this relationship is OVER"

She's cheating on you and obviously doesn't respect you. Why would you go for this type of girl anyway? She seem like an extremely trashy girl, the type you would have a one night stand with, not date.

LMAO...I love that this thread is about oldschool values.

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Basically, when she was younger she was searching for sexual partners and she was pursuing them. She doesn't pursue you that's why she doesn't send you photos. She is the one in power.
I don't think she was sending those photos to these people because she was more attracted. She was more CHASING.
So that's the number one mistake you did with her. You didn't make her chase you. That's why she doesn't express as much interest in you.
The oral sex that she gave to her other partners was only to impress them and keep them around. If we take in consideration that she was doing the chasing to get them sleep with her they always had a more laid back attitude than you. They didn't ask her to do something, she was not feeling wanted that's why she was trying harder.
About her giving oral sex to you... she is either not that into you because you don't game her or she can't give you long time because if you are too big it is physically impossible to keep up doing it.
A smaller penis is easier for oral sex than a big one. As it goes with penetrative sex she has to be more in the mood to keep up longer.
You don't know if she is cheating on you. As a woman I don't pick up such a vibe but I pick up the vibe that she might do it soon if you won't start gaming her.
I don't know how... maybe make her jealous ( I 'm not an expert on the gaming methods. Men here can help you more on that).
Keep in mind that she is only 18 years old. The younger a person the more they are looking for the buzz of excitement either from flirting multiple people or from chasing a special someone.

Basically, when she was younger she was searching for sexual partners and she was pursuing them. She doesn't pursue you that's why she doesn't send you photos. She is the one in power.
I don't think she was sending those photos to these people because she was more attracted. She was more CHASING.
So that's the number one mistake you did with her. You didn't make her chase you. That's why she doesn't express as much interest in you.
The oral sex that she gave to her other partners was only to impress them and keep them around. If we take in consideration that she was doing the chasing to get them sleep with her they always had a more laid back attitude than you. They didn't ask her to do something, she was not feeling wanted that's why she was trying harder.
About her giving oral sex to you... she is either not that into you because you don't game her or she can't give you long time because if you are too big it is physically impossible to keep up doing it.
A smaller penis is easier for oral sex than a big one. As it goes with penetrative sex she has to be more in the mood to keep up longer.
You don't know if she is cheating on you. As a woman I don't pick up such a vibe but I pick up the vibe that she might do it soon if you won't start gaming her.
I don't know how... maybe make her jealous ( I 'm not an expert on the gaming methods. Men here can help you more on that).
Keep in mind that she is only 18 years old. The younger a person the more they are looking for the buzz of excitement either from flirting multiple people or from chasing a special someone.[/quote]

Maria has this girl pegged in my opinion. She was chasing those guys and giving them whatever to keep them around. I would read again what she posted and take it to heart.

I think you have some choices to make and think about.

1. Do I want to be in a relationship with this kind of person?
2. Assuming Yes to #1, do you like her enough to pursue a relationship without oral sex potentially? What's more important her or getting some oral?
3. Does she like you enough that she'd do it for you because it makes you happy? She may have already answered this.

Bottom line with those things going on I agree that I do not believe she is cheating on you, I don't get that vibe either from what's posted. Although I think things may be on the ropes. Don't beg her for anything like that she either does it or doesn't. Open a dialogue with her about it though you have to be able to talk to her about your wants and needs though, again without begging.

Keep in mind relationships are not scoreboards if you put up 10 points on the board giving her a long oral session it doesn't mean she has to match the same night necessarily, if you go through a relationship like that it isn't going to work out too well. Everyone has different ways of showing they care about someone her ways may not be in the bedroom as much.

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