Hey folks, I'm new here and saw alot of the intro titles are very similar to "aspiring pua"

for me, pickup is not only about getting the girl but more about improving yourself, hence the title. I know I am not the only one thinking this, many of you live by it too.

I am from Israel, 23 years old and has been into pickup for about a year now.

I got into the game after being broken hearted one too many times and decided that I wanted the power to have options. Regardless of the future of any relationship I will have, I wanted never to be in a position of weakness ever again.

But that backfired.

I won't bore you with my story, only know that at first, the game demanded from me to be something that I am not, and after alot of trial and error I got to believe that being yourself is the best method to get the girl.

Still, most of my effort has been towards the Salsa scene (Bachata actually). I dance it really well but everything else still sucks (relationship wise). In the past year I dated alot, (and before pickup i only had 2 dates). But still nothing meaningfull.

Besides Pickup I am also a Programmer and very passionate about that, I am starting a startup now.

Hello everyone

Hey man welcome, and enjoy it.