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Generally speaking, guys choose women based on their BEST traits. Women on the other hand, generally choose men based on who can give them the widest range of INTENSE emotions.
That's what supposed to happen according to the theory. Most men go for the girl that makes them invest more on the chase.
Take notice of how many guys have Oneitis for an emotionally unstable woman. Most of the guys posting here asking for advice for that special woman they have feelings for it is never for option A.
Men that have option A or option C usually post things: tired of being in a relationship I want to go out and improve my game.
The ones that are with option B who is puzzling and they need to put an effort to win her heart is the one they want to settle down with.
The truth is that when a person makes you "invest" in thinking about them comes across as more valuable.
Some others might get thrilled also that a woman is more mysterious or has an element of danger.
The insecure men will chose the one that has lower demand because she provides them with the sense of stability and lower risk of cheating. Option A & C would intimidate them.
The vast majority of men are not alphas with plenty of options. Even the alphas at the challenging time that have to pick a girl they would go for the one that adds a certain value in their life that no one else can.
Even then, if she won't make him chase her he won't even notice her.
To cut long story short... men go for intensity of feelings too. And if you want proof check this forum and the relationship board. You won't even find one that talks about traits using logic. That's more in dating were someone choses to sleep with a girl only (option C would be preferred).
The differences in seduction of men & women are minor. The same main ideas of the methods work with a bit of modification.
As this audio book shows:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QJtjiaw ... 042A67A141
choices in seduction are dictated by feelings in both sexes.