Hi guys I'm Vincent 24 years old and new with this.

My main problem is that I'm the nice guy with a little bit approach anxiety.
This improved a lot the last months because I travelled trough Asia for a few months and met lots op people included women. The problem there was when it came to women (other backpackers) is that when I met them I did good and the girls wanted to drink something or go out.

Then when I was one on one with this girl nothing happened and the next day I felt foolish about myself because I realised that chances are pretty rare that a girl stays with me till 5 am just for a talk.

Now my first quistions are.
- Doe you guys have advice how to be more agressive from having a conversation to for instance kiss a girl.
- And do you guys have advices to be less the nice guy in general, or excercices.

This weekend I have some parties and I'm looking forward to try things again and become better.


Cheers,

Vincent

Hi Vincent, welcome to the forum.

Sounds like you just need to escalate... Google the "Vin DiCarlo Escalation Ladder" and try implementing some of it the next time you're out and in a social situation like that one.

Escalation is a huge part of pickup. Master that and you're on your way