Hey guys,

This is my first post here. I am totally new to this game. I went clubbing in Netherlands and as you can guess I was fully surrounded by the dutch ( It was a dutch party). The composition in the club was 70% males and 30% females. So you can imagine it was too difficult for a neub like me to pickup girls in that club. Still I was pretty confident initially. But I am got a bit frustrated in the end . I tried a few pickup lines in the club, but that back fired. It didn't work for me. So after that I just started to dance like crazy ,alone. Then I noticed a girl and I decided to approach her. She had a friend. There was another guy who was hitting on her friend. So I waited and watched this guy making his moves on that girl. He was saying something to her in the ears, she responded and then she laughed. After a few minutes she started grinding him. Meanwhile I was cock blocked by another guy when I finally tried to hit on the other girl I liked. I was waiting for him to leave, but sadly that didn't happen as she got hooked to him.
So I started watching her friend again who was with the first guy. Now I noticed them making out. To be honest I was jealous and got a little demotivated at that instant .
So I will be very grateful I could really get some help in what to say to a girl when I am dancing with her (especially these dutch girls)?? I have lost many opportunities like that before. After your advice I hope I am better at this.

I am also improving my dance skills, so I am confident if I practice well enough in my lines, I can pick them up more easily, like the other guy I mentioned above.

Please suggest me some links if you know of anything regarding this.

Eagerly awaiting your reply. Thanks a lot for your help in advance.

P.S: I am an Indian guy living in Netherlands for two years now and will probably stay for another year.

Regards,

Humblebee!

Note that the Dutch are very down to earth. I'm from Holland myself and found out to 'pick-up lines' don't work here. Offcourse you can pickup, but keep in mind:

This forum seems to be very American. As you can see in American tv shows, thing are a little different there (probably in India too, simply because it's on the other end of the world). Girls are less giggly and are more serious here.
I recommend you to stay down to earth with openers using the situation. You can be playful and a little cocky once in a conversation. Keep it humerous though because showing off self confidence is not aprreciated here.

Good luck!

Just like what Joop1 sayd. Pickuplines doesnt work here.

Well not the american ones. The simple things like Hey! (with a smile), How are you? And give confident and positive energy word verry well. Then funny teasing. and funny storys. Are also good ones.
But. The music in the clubs are verry loud in the clubs.

So you can also approach her, lock eye contact, say NOTHING and just DANCE with her. Give her distance first. Then if she allows, grab her hand. You can let it go and grab it again after 30 seconds(still dancing with her) do funny moves, if she do funny moves copy one or 2 and laugh, get a bit more serious and get the sexual tention a bit up, then pull her to you. Dont do this to fast. Works 90% of the time for me.
Some girls ''picked me up'' when I allowed them to like this.
I think its an easy one.

And just have fun! Let them see you got value. Let them see you are having a good time.
Me and my buddy often go to a club. Showing value and we are often surrounded by girls. Even on clubs with 70% boys 30% girls population.
On this situation its verry easy to approach with succes. Cous they are already showing intrest.



So: Have fun, have a great time, let the girls smile, and everyting falls together.

I'm going to give you the single best piece of advice i can give anyone.

Use your own head.

When you are in the dancefloor is loud, forget about talking.

Dancefloor is all about body language and confidence.

You see the girl and you approach, all she will see is how you are dressed, and how confident you approached, and your fun vibe.

After that just extend your arm and grab her hand and just dance together.

I'm not gona tell you how to dance, but everytime you look at the dancefloor you'll see a guy and a girl dancing, immitate that.

Once your dancing with her just enjoy her feminine essence. Make lots of eye contact, smile and just enjoy the dance.

After a few you can just whisper in her ear for her name and shit like that.

Is not complicated. Then if its on, go for the kiss, you dont even have to talk if you dont want to... just pure sexual body language communication.

After that find out the logistics, lead, and close.

*peace*

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