I met this girl, I lifted her up, hugged her, was about to kiss her but she refused.

For a good reason I only took her eMail. This is how it went:
If I ask: "So when do you have time" I follow her lead. If I suggest another time one more time, I am also following her lead. The only way I see is to not reply anymore and another girl is lost.

What would you do?

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I have been doing pickup since 1st of March in 2005.

I'd reply with "hit me up when you'll be able to talk and we'll see if we can set up something" sort of response, considering it implies that 1. you aren't going to wait around for her and 2. you actually have a schedule of your own. However, after the first denial, I would've probably ended it there since I don't really see it going anywhere unless you change the topic instantly to something more fun, then push back for a date the next day(you can't work for 12 hours without breaking work ethic most of the time). I'd really like a better, more informed opinion on this one, I have some issues with this sort of message as well.

Good idea. I wrote something like "Cool. Reply to me when you are ready and we'll see if we can arrange something. But not between <day1> and <day2> as I am in <country> then(true actually)". Then I removed all messages and her address to not be able to contact her again.

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I have been doing pickup since 1st of March in 2005.

Dont be afraid to loose girls.

Try 3 times or as many as you have to.

But as a seasoned PUA you must have a constant cycle of women available to you.

I mean, you want to have a source of women, somewere where if you fuck up with one girl you can easily pick up another one and practice your skills.

If you fuck up with a girl, and your but hurt about it, you need more girls in your life.

Game is very simple and streight forward. You just need access to lots of girls to eventually get success and understand the very simple picture that is "Pick up"

Although complex at first, is very simple once you grasp the concepts.

Keep trying.

Everytime a guy asks about a particular situation is like trying to tackle a symptom enstead of curing the disease.

The fact that they struggle to get "one" girl is already fucked up.

If the attraction is established correctly it should all flow very streight forward, no bullshit.

and here's a little pick up tip

next time your setting up a date, Say hey lets meet here tonight or watever, if she says no

simply say alrite just let me know when you are free.

Dont be chasing and shit, thats wack.

uhh i hope that made sense, it can easily be mis interpreted... what i'm saying is that a man of true value doesnt give a fuck, he makes it clear he likes her and wants to see her, and if she's being wack he cuts her after a couple attempts and moves on.

*peace*

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