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i thought of an opener, it might work here it goes
you: i can see your quite the althlete, so how long have you been working out?
example 1:response HB: well i kinda just started.....
example 2:response HB: just 1 month (short and simple, not good)
you:response 1: really?.. i would of never expected, your in such good shape, you should show me your exercises. (remember act surprised)
HB: (she laughs)
you: hey i like your laugh, whats your name?
example 2 response:
you:response 2: wow thats totally cool, im fairly new myself, we have something in common, so what have you been doing as exercising goes?
her: just cardio
you: wow, thats cool, i never done cardio in a gym, only reps, can you show me all your cardio techniques?
thats something i would try but im still new and only 16 so its your call....
(remember have a smile on your face before she sees you and act like your in a good mood)
Dude you telegraph interest way too much. "look we have something in common" Read up on negs! You're putting a lot of the conversation on her too... "can you show me all your cardio techniques?" What do you expect her to say?